Why do guys ignore me in clubs/bars?
I am a tall, skinny, blonde...I'm really into hair/clothes/etc...So I'm almost always really put together. People are always telling me I'm beautiful...
Most Helpful Guy
Do you dress up more when you hit the bars? If you do, maybe your outfits make you appear very high-maintenance, guys dread that.
What Guys Said 7
Wouldn't you rather have guys talking to you during the day? I thought girls didn't like meeting guys at the bar because they (wrongly) think they only want one thing.
What are you complaining about, if people hit on you during day time, you are way ahead than girls that won't be aprouched on anytime. Be greatful, and maybe you should make your moves, be social, intelegent and spontanius. Be social and friendly with everyone so then guys know that you re not the daddy's little girl nor a slut, you are a friend not a barbie.
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Maybe you should roll with the punches and bring guys home with the groceries =)
A lot of guys know that girls are harder to approach at clubs and bars, and easier to approach at school, during the day, etc.
You know.. normally guys don't keep hitting on every girl in sight.. yes - that's a revelation! ..as it's still widely believed that we are still cavemen who are happy with any woman as long as she got püssy.
Maybe you've put up too much make-up/too much preppy clothes and you got obviously 'fake' look - now, I may get crap for saying this as being a "hypocrite", but to be real, many guys automatically skip such chicks as long as they spot that her 'beauty' is waaay too much dependent on something else.. they assume that she may not be that or any pretty while naked and after washing it all off.
Or you're just too used of receiving attention, and the moment you don't receive it you think something is wrong.
And bars are not single-men lairs, even married men visit them. Can't say the same about clubs though.
Rock to the music and bend over. A man will be appear behind you magically. It will be David Copafeel.
What Girls Said 3
Do you go with friends? Are you standing in the corner or sitting at some table? Get on the dance floor and try to have fun! Works like a charm! PS Smiling always helps too!
Maybe you are too hot and they are intimidated? Maybe you keep going to gay bars? Maybe you come off as snotty or full of yourself because you know you're hot. That's a super turn-off.
Maybe there's something about your vibe that turns them off.
I've seen gorgeous girls get turned away guys because of the way they behave. I would say that they may just be intimidated by your beauty, but I know that can't be true. One of my friends is very beautiful and has practically identical situations happen, but she gets hit on even in clubs. So I think maybe you present yourself as stuck up or something.
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