I've been messaging a guy I like on Facebook for a few weeks now. We're not friends on Fb so it's really just messages. There's days when we send... Show More
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I think that you should pay more respect to the fact that he's not always available to talk to you.
I mean, c'mon, the guy has a FULL-TIME JOB, and (even without judging, this one is the important thing that you need to remember) a (f***ing) GIRLFRIEND. At the very most, you are going to have to take third place in priority, because both of those things should be above others. Especially you, who has a crush on a taken guy. Yeah, it kinda says something that he is talking to a girl who has a crush on him, and hasn't told his girlfriend, but then again how does one explain that?
On top of that, I don't always respond to my friends, right away either. Especially around December, as that's usually a nuts time of year. But even then, I have a life, work, a girlfriend, friends, family, busy busy busy. When you have a life, and people to talk to, and two big things like a job and a girlfriend, time gets eaten up, and one can't always call their friends. Just assume he's busy.
Regardless of what you want, you are not top priority, and I think this is understandable, and I think this is just something you are just going to have to live with. I know this is harsh, but it's true. It needs to be said, and clearly, you already had a feeling before, otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it, yourself.
Sorry. Just be patient, and deal with not being number one.