Does she like me and am I overthinking her reply?

[lynx9]

Need a girls opinion..

After I asked this girl out, she told me to send her the details over inbox on facebook.

Towards the end of our little conversation on facebook, I said "Meet at 6 on Saturday at cinema?" in which she replied "Yeah that sounds great!"

On the day she sent a message to check if it was still going ahead.

Positive signs I got:

- I felt her pushing her arm against me and that our arms were making contact
- She was always intrigued by what I was saying and asked me questions
- When I asked her, she talked a lot
- Whilst walking home, after teasing her she playfully punched my arm and mentioned her sister punches harder
- She also started eating chewing gum and offered me some
- When we got to her area, she took me the 20 minute route, instead of the 5 minute one
- At the end of the night I put my hand to her face then went in for the kiss and she didn't pull away, lasted a few seconds. When that stopped, she hugged me around my chest.

Two days after, I sent her a message "Was great seeing you on Saturday, I had fun. We should do something again soon." She replied two minutes after with "Yeah, sounds good.".

Am I overthinking her reply? It doesn't sound as enthusiastic as the one before the date, but thinking maybe that's her way of replying? Do you think she's trying not to act too keen after the kiss?

[Paris13]

If I would have had this much fun with you, and was Showing Both Actions And words, Not only would I have been So 'Enthusiastic' about you sending me your 'Message' of: "Was great seeing you on Saturday, I had fun..." But I would have pushed a few buttons of my own and Replied: "It was Great seeing you too, and yes, I really enjoyed myself. Let's keep in touch about hanging out soon."
Perhaps with her Mere message of "Yeah, sounds good," she was Smack in the middle of something important and wasn't able to write more. And yes, it could have been 'her way of replying,' just keeping it short and semi sweet.
Sometimes in the beginning of your beguine with someone new, it's always best to "over think' some things when you are looking for positive And negative signs that someone is Still Into you.
I have helped many a GAGER here who started dating someone today, everything was going great and then POW! He or she just disappeared with no notice.
And with your texts and chat talks on FB, you will Definitely be able to detect if there are going to be any more 'Saturdays at the cinema,' Or----She's Not acting too keen Now after the kiss.
Good luck. xx

[lynx9]

A work mate who's known her since she was about 10 said she came in with a big smile on her face the other day and another work mate said she came into work another day with her little brother in casual clothes, with her little brother saying randomly "my sis went on a date" and she was trying to quieten him saying "Shhh!". That's what a work mate said though, I wasn't there.

[Paris13]

She may have been 'shy' about wanting to talk about her date with you, may have been shy, and if they saw she has a smile, that is a good sign all is well for she seems happy... You didn't say if you both have been texting a lot since the date... But if you haven't, shoot her a hello text and see what she says.. Perhaps it was just the manner she uses, not wanting to blook too excited in front of you about the great time, but I guess all of us may be different in responding after the fact.. I am just one of those girls who is More outgoing... Stay on top of it, and you'll know more when you are texting and if you both decide to go back out... xx

[lynx9]

Only reason I haven't been messaging/texting is because I prefer showing the confidence to do it in person. We also work at the same place but in different areas, so we do talk there too although I may be moving to a different place in a week. She is a shy girl, but she does talk a lot when she is with me. My gut tells me she's trying not to look too keen, which is what I've been doing. I've been showing bursts of interest, then backing off and being busy with my own life rather than be all over her/annoy her with too much contact! Thank you for your advice too.

[Paris13]

Oh, okay, more facts after the fact, you work together.. okay.. good idea with this... And feel things out, see where it goes.. I see you both had a good start, seemed great with chemistry, and in time, everything will tell you More... xx

[Anonymous]

Damn she's into you! Her body language is screaming it to you!! As with the messages, like myself, not all girls are as 'flirtatious' and outgoing through messages. Sure it wouldn't kill her to have put a smiley face or some more '!!!' but that's probably just the way she texts.

Don't sweat it. She likes ya ;)

[slightlycurious]

I would say maybe you're over thinking it. If it was me in her shoes I would have been honest if I didn't want to see someone again. She could have been in a hurry or maybe she is just more comfortable talking to you so she doesn't add exclamation points anymore.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you're overthinking fosho. just take it easy and go with the flow.

[bettyboopalyy]

You are over thinking it. She is down for another so plan it out again and then tell her. Or you could see what she would like to do. Don't think she's brushing you off.

[lynx9]

I guess it's like actions speak louder than words? If she's not so talkative/sounding enthusiastic over message, but is in person and willing to go out then I really should just focus on her actions?

[bettyboopalyy]

Yeah pretty much. Plus it could also be her time of the month and she wasn't up to sound so excited as she might have been in pain.

[lynx9]

As I walked into the store, she was working on the first aisle. I asked her if she liked mexican food and she replied "Whats mexican food?" and I said "from Mexico", she said "Ohh" with a little bit of a laugh. I told her the name of the place, then next Saturday at 6. She replied "Yeah, I'll message you about it" but she didn't seem that happy. Is this her excuse to brush me off? I'm confused as various periods during the day we'd bump into each other and she'd smile and laugh a bit, but it seemed like sometimes she was avoiding/ignoring me. Should I wait until tuesday/wednesday and send her a message if she doesn't send me one?

[bettyboopalyy]

Yeah you could wait , she's probably just busy , idk.

[fabulouslyme]

She definitely likes you! It just seems like she was nervous, which is normal.

[Cheshire_tasiaaa]

She's very into you! You're overthinking the reply because it's almost the same as the first one she sent you. She just might not be that into talking through text/fb message