What does "I never wanted to be your whole life-just your favorite part" mean? is it a negative or positive message?

[jbugs65]

What would this mean if a girl says this. Would she be saying this if she has been hurt from a past relationship, etc?

[Skadoosher]

What I get from this is more something like this:

A- "Please don't leave! I Love you!"...

B-"And I you, but its just too much."

A- "I don't understand... Is it me?"

B-"Yes, actually. You've stopped being the person I fell in love with,
and now your wanting to take this somewhere I don't want to follow."

A-"I thought... I just don't get it. Your my world babe"

B-"Well I never wanted to be your whole world! . . . Just your favorite part."
(B walks away)
(A has no words)
(Game Over)

[Jungledoc]

How wonderfully romantic... I think what she really means is that you both have lives, and although she may not be part of everything in yours, it is more important to be (to her) the part that is the most important to you...

Again, how wonderfully romantic... I would hang onto her for dear life my friend...

[SomethingWicked]

It means, if you make someone your whole life, you loose yourself and you should never do this is a relationship. It's not negative. She's saying she wants to be with you, she wants to be part of your world, not your entire world. She will expect you to do things with others and not just her, have your own life, but it includes her in it.

[jeweliet]

This could be interpreted a million ways. It could mean they didn't want to be your main focus in your world, just your favourite part of it. Or it could mean they wanted to impact your life however they never intended to stay. I would need to know the conversation it was used it to be able to understand what context it was used in.

[Anonymous]

She is saying that you need friends and hobbies and may be you are too clingy.

[BertMacklinFBI]

generally, I would say negative. they don't wanna be your whole life just your favorite part, the way I see that, they just wanted to be in the high point of your life because they enjoyed it as their high point too but they don't want to commit to your entire life. I don't know that's kinda what I got lol.

[GrowStrong]

she means she wanted to be your favourite part in your life. not your whole life. aka wished u had more going on other than the relatinship

[loveryn]

Its not a negative thing. She's just saying she didn't want to be obsessed over and the only thing you succeed in having in your life - she just wants to be your favorite of everything.

[apshm]

Translation: I want you to value me and think I'm important, but you should still have an independent life of your own. Yeah, it could be said after a breakup if they thought you were too clingy.

[bambi3]

Its sweet if some one I loved said that to me I'd melt...

[martyfellow]

She 'so preparing to leave, and has habitually dumped guys, so she has these lines all prepared.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are being too clingy.