Why would that be a sexy trait? I certainly don't feel sexy when I'm curled up in bed, crying, feeling completely and utterly worthless, hopeless, ugly, and stupid, or when I'm looking at a bottle of pills and thinking how easy it would be to just end it all.
Anyone trying to turn that into something "sexy" needs to stop and examine their priorities. Girls can be sexy *despite* being depressed, but not *because* they're depressed.
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Depression, mental illness and self harming aren't things that are sexy, attractive, beautiful or desirable. People need to stop romanticizing it. Wanting to die isn't sexy. Scars from cutting or burning aren't sexy-- and no guy is going to kiss them unless they are totally cliche and from a John Green novel. Having a medicine cabinet full of zoloft and xanax isn't sexy.
Of course. I think we are super sexy.
I mean, isn't it super sexy to hear someone crying & bitching about everything & moping all the fucking time?
Nah, people are typically attracted to joy. Perky girls are fun. Therefore, guys are attracted to happy girls.
I wouldn't say that depression is sexy. However, I won't deny that there isn't a certain appeal to a damaged person. Pain is humanizing and being human is beautiful.
a sexy girl is sexy doesn't matter she is happy or sad... an ugly one is ugly even she is happy sad excited or what so ever
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Depression is not sexy, no idea where you got that from. o. O
I certainly didn't expect to see the replies from the guys. It actually touched my heart.
I've had depression for a long time and have always thought guys steer clear from depressed girls. I didn't expect to see guys say they feel protective or like they want to help them. It kind-of put a happy tear in my eye. :')I don't feed off of people's sadness and being depressed changes people's mood around you... so no I dont think it's attractive.
Sexy is more of act/attitude of confidence and depressed is nowhere close to being confident.Am I the only one looking at this question and seeing to myself the hell. ... No girl it isn't sexy to be depressed.. no where! I don't know where u live, what culture or belief you have, but depression isn't sexy period.
lol seriously😁Sexy? No. And it is not a state I like to see them in. Yet I am drawn to them. As someone who knows what it's like to be brokenhearted, I am compelled to try to mend broken hearts wherever I see them.
Wtf? Why would depression be sexy? Depression is BAD, so no. If you are depressed, then you should find ways to be happy.
Depression isn't hot. As a perspn who hae struggled w depression Ifond this offensuvr.
Srry drinkNo, but I get emotionally protective of them, which is probably an unhealthy habit.
It's not sexy. It could inspire them to help you though.
They can be, but being depressed isn't what makes them sexy.
Usually I just want to give them a hug.No, though being depressed isn't an instant turn off (though it's something of a red flag).
What? In what world is someone being depressed considered sexy?
What? Yeah I love it when I can never make my girl happy.. SO sexy.
Definitely. The minute I see a sad looking girl I just want to give them a hug.
I think any girl is sexy. That's probably more my problem than it is an acceptable opinion though.
What kind of question is that? No they aren't sexy.
Not sexy, however of interest and somehow makes you hope you could help.
No. Depression is not a sexy characteristic.
NO!! I have enough problems to deal with!
do you think depressed guys are sexy? 0_o
Lmao what why would people find that sexy
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