I've definitely felt this whole thing before. Its very irritating. I've found it best not to to let their standoffishness etc bother you. Dont give your mind the power to think they are thinking negatively about you or that they view you in a certain way based on their body language etc. Dont care so much how they are viewing you. You dont know exactly whats going on in their head so dont try to analyze it. View them as shy and socially awkward and keep talking to them until they warm up. Believe you are being perfectly normal in talking to them and they are the ones with issues.
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Just chill, if people are rude that's their problem.
You're attractive! But honestly lol, you have the typical look of a douchebag. I can clearly tell you're not from the way you write, I'm just saying from first impressions, a lot of women are kinda close-minded and will judge a guy based on how they look (or at least it seems like the ones you've met have done so, obviously not generalizing my girls out there). You're a good looking, tall-ish, blonde guy, with a chiseled face. A lot of those guys are stereotyped to be self centered and narcissistic because they're attractive.
You do look good lol, but some people won't react to that. Who knows what's been going on through their heads when you try to talk to them, might've been having a bad day. Some girls might not even want to be bothered at all, it doesn't have to be a specific reason lol we weird. And some girls are intimidated by good lookin people, probably couldn't process it like why he talkin to me.
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You look like a crackhead. Sort your hair and dressing style and see if things change.
Just remember this my man. If anyone is rude to you, it's their problem not yours.
Some women are rude by nature, not your fault.
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