Is it normal for my family members to not care about nudity?

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I am 20 f from india. And i have noticed that my mom, dad and a younger brother actually never cared about their clotheing when at home. Ofcourse they do if we have people visiting us and stuff. But around each other all family memebers won't care much about their clothing. I have seen my mom fully naked multiple times which could be normal for most of girls but i have also seen my bros and dads erect and non erect dicks many times which becomes awkwards sometimes. recently i had a chat about it with my girl-friends and they were really grossed out due to it. I have talked to my mom about it but then she somehow convenced me to believe that its normal to be naked sometimes aroud family members as it makes them more comfortable... She also doesn't mind being naked around my bro... I mean i dont mind my mom watching me naked but when it comes to bro and dad it is different. I get really uncomfortable there. My bro seems to not care and a little bit curious too when it comes to me. Is it normal for family memebers to be nudists?

MasterHiruki · Accepted Answer

No its not normal at least in UK some families and cultures have a different comfort levels with there sexual comfort around others. I admit walk around naked from time to time since i don't anything to bed and all members of my family have seen me naked at some point before i moved out. But not often none of them freaked out neither did i but it happens. My dad had a habit of walking about naked i seemed to picked it up in my adulthood he wasn't bothered being seen but it bothered the rest of us lol. I guess some families are just promisious by nature. Its not uncommon to see eachother naked when you live together everyday it just happens sometimes. One of my early ex's had little regard for her state of dress but she was polish so that might be the reason but she would often walk around in various states of undress when i was still at home. But i knew she liked being looked at it turned her on (she wouldn't admit directly) but only to certain extent i don't she likes a old man like my dad staring at her ass or other assets in that way when she's heading briskly into the shower from room lol. Her family however seemed to normal as they didn't walk bare to everyone but maybe it was only guests were around she had to pick it up somewhere.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

In some cultures it is quite normal. I would not expect that it is normal in India, but that does not mean that in individual families it is weird or anything like that. Here in the USA it is not usual, but still, in many families it is common.

There is nothing wrong with your family being that way if that is their belief. But you do not have to be the same. Wear whatever amount of clothes that make you comfortable.

In one way you have an advantage over other girls. Long before getting into any sexual situations with a guy you have seen your male family members naked in any situations and have also seen the "mechanics" of erections. Do not feel embarrassed about seeing them. It does not bother them. And yes u just dress the way that makes you comfortable.

I do suggest you not talk about it with you friends as they do not understand and will embarrass you about it.

modeve · Accepted Answer

I am from South Asia where usually distance is kept between genders especially when nudity enters. Girls often see their moms nude while taking bath or changing clothes. In our family guys usually put on underwear during humid and hot weather while girls are careful. I have been seeing my brothers semi nude. Myself was naked when males were not at home. So it was a mixed culture. Now after marriage I usually stay nude at home, so does my husband.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Okay if you have problem seeing your family naked then dont see them or ignore them. And how come you have seen their dicks erect and non erect too?

cupidkisses · Accepted Answer

it is not normal at least in my culture

Citizenkirk · Answer

I am 51 and my mom recently saw me naked when I was trimming my pubes too make examination and application of antibiotic ointment easier. She was staying at my place while visiting and got up the first night she was there too get a cold bottle if water from the fridge, and saw me at the sink three feet in front of her with my foot up in the kitchen sink, in my birthday suit, razor in hand, trying too access my inner thigh regions with my exposed genitals dangling in front of her between my spread-eagle legs. I couldn't have covered up if I wanted too without taking a header on the kitchen floor, and my mom asked me what I was doing, getting a good unobstructed look at my equipment hanging there in front of her, her expression going from suspicion to worry, while I put the razor down and almost lost my footing trying too extracate my foot from the sink basin without looking like I had just got caught with my hand in the cookie jar.
Seeing me holding a straight razor too my femoral artery is probably what caused her alarm, with people in our communities acting screwy as of late. She wasn't perving on me, or angry or upset, but she looked very worried, and I made a pact with her long ago that we wouldn't keep secrets from each other, so I showed her the inflamation and abrasions from a roofing accident and told her about a nieghbor who had been checking up on me, being a retired physician, insisted I not bother putting anything on, since she had seen it all before, while examining my groin and rear. It wasn't comfortable lifting my nuts and showing mom what had happened, but she was mom, and she'd seen me naked a few years back when contaminated clothing caused severe skin irritation and I had nothing too change into. Bending over and spreading cheeks in front of her wasn't something I enjoyed doing, but giving her piece of mind by letting her lean forward for a close inspection of my exposed anus and testicles showed her that there was indeed, swelling of the testicles and inflammation and redness of scrotal sack, penis, anal regions, and perennial and inner thigh regions, where my bramuda shorts offered no protection from abrasions when sliding down a few yards. She didn't imply that I was trying too hurt myself, but not everyone used straight razors anymore. She woke early that morning, finding me crashed out on my recliner naked with morning wood. She'd seen it before, and gave no indication that I should put anything on while we watched NYPD Blue reruns until breakfast.
I'm not an exhibitionist, she not a voyer, but for a few hours, that's what we did. Morning wood on display for almost three hours of television watching together.
She's mom, and it's her DNA standing at attention, so let her look.

ryaninalaska907 · Answer

I am a guy and I live in the USA and here a lot freak out about nudity in famileys and nudity with stranger in some way. First off all girls have the same parts boobs and pussy's and all guys have the same parts cocks and balls and if USA would stop being so freaked out on nudity and start letting nudity be a part of famileys every day living and and if evey day life I think where would not be so much crime inolving nudity and start teaching nudity the famileys and teach the kids the difference between boys and girls like I said before there would not be so much crime inolving nudity

bubbatxman · Answer

There is a town in France Cape ‘d Agde where everyone goes nude. People are required to be nude at the beach, and the whole town is clothing optional. I think it is beautiful that all men and women (and children) have a place where they can be their natural selves. And while there is some sex, it’s really about living a natural lifestyle without clothes. I think it’s beaitiful.

jacquesvol · Answer

In Germany and some other European countries it's quite normal in some families (not all)
And we've seen a few neighbors in underwear/skimpy clothing. (Belgian, Greek, Polish, Mexican, Austrian, Danish)
I've seen my brothers and dad naked, not my mom. Our son has seen us naked.

Not everyone covers up all the time.

Homeskrillah · Answer

In some ways I would say. As for me as an American citizen but my race are used to seeing each other naked. to make it clear nudist as you know what it is but as a culture there are no limits as we stick to the question.

Anonymous · Answer

My mom is home nudist, so are my two sisters, 20 and 21. Dad is bit careful. I got encouragement from them and since childhood prefer to stay nude for the maximum time. It's very comfortable and natural but at the same time disturbing too that I have to put my hands on penis in presence of them.

Anonymous · Answer

Nudity between family members, as long as there's no sexual thoughts involved, thre's no harm on it. I like nudity, but I must say that I never let my sister saw me hard, that would be just super weird

GingerGuy · Answer

It should be normal! It's really not a big deal, people make it one.

ladsin · Answer

My dad's family is like that. My mom's isn't just depends on the particular family dynamic.

saugacitboy · Answer

that is really strange I get it to wear comfy clothes. but naked and erect eww these things are weird

Kimjongun · Answer

I come from India too and girl, that is strange. I have never seen a family like yours, but hey, whatever floats your boat.

Bernydene · Answer

My family doesn't really care by they not nudists. By coming outta the shower nude or like that is fine

Bldballs · Answer

That's a tough question. its ok if you have saw your bros dick

anujm · Answer

it's not at all normal...

singlebee · Answer

Ummm not in my house nopeeeee

TheDreamRunner · Answer

No comment on that, I was just passing by

Anonymous · Answer

When I was younger I used to be naked a lot

Is it normal for my family members to not care about nudity?

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