And when girls do that, knowingly leading guys on, is that a sign of mental illness or neurosis?
Do girls enjoy rejecting guys?
And when girls do that, knowingly leading guys on, is that a sign of mental illness or neurosis?
i dont think most girls enjoy the part of dumping...
Although it can make you feel bitter, i think sometimes we send mixed messages because we are unsure of what we want.
I also believe that some girls enjoy the tease, but when it comes to comiting, they always bail. I think there's two reasons for that 1) the girl enjoys the feeling of self confidence and powe 2) they are actually afraid of comitting because they have been hurt and the past
god no. i dont think anyone genuinely likes hurting other people's feelings unless theyre a sociopath.
i guess sometimes i talk to guys for longer than i should, which could be misinterpreted as leading them on. but really i only do it because i know how awful rejection is and im putting off hurting someone.
If a girl tells a guy she's really into him, then when he says he'd like to hang out she flat or says "no" and walks away and ignores him, it sounds like there's something not quite right in her brain. It's easier getting over rejection than being played.
It def sounds like she's playing games
They enjoy the chase! They may be indecisive. A girl might just want company from you and may be lonely. Honestly, I hate rejecting guys. I have said No a few times, and I feel terrible! Other times, I'll say Yes and make you happy. But I need to make myself happy too!
no. I do reject a lot a loooooot but that's because I'm truly not interested. I wouldn't lead anyone on though. It seems like that to guys sometimes because you think your interested but as you get to know the guy more you don't like them anymore and change your mind
yes, i believe so. i've been observing, however, i think this behaviour is relatively new and has started becoming more common place in the last 80 years. it wasn't like this before.
they probably have npd
i know many girls like this
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Personally, I never mean to leave people on. I accidentally flirt and that tends to make guys question whether or not I like them. I don't enjoy turning guys down; I highly doubt many people do. But unless you would like to be in a relationship with a girl who doesn't actually like you, sometimes rejection is necessary
jfc so many spelling errors. please ignore them
I never try to lead guys on but I'm just genuinely a really bubbly person which often gets mistaken for leading a guy on. It's never intentional and it's hard cause for me especially I don't know how to still be nice and be myself without leading a guy on so for girls like me we struggle with not leading guys on, we never mean to, it just happens. I find the girls hat purpously lead a guy on and then reject them annoying because it must suck ass for the guy
None of these.
Most likely , She was friendly to you and you misinterpreted it.
She won't have enjoyed it, she probably didn't realise you'd take it the way you did.
Either that or she may have liked you at first, then changed her mind.
It's no one's fault, but no girl enjoys it, no.
"Hi" isn't code for "I love you". What?
😉 😉
Right? ... and "I'd bang you so hard" doesn't mean " let's be together forever and have babies" ... the struggle of finding that out too late 😳
Now we're stuck in translation
I just have to remember if a girl says she's into me and thinks about me a lot, that doesn't = interest. Cause that's what happened. I don't take rejection personally but I take being played personally.
Maybe she was interested, but like I said, she may have lost that interest, or she got spooked
But your question was" do girls enjoy rejecting guys" and the answer is no.
You're saying her playing you makes her "mentally ill" ... but then wouldn't that count for all players, especially the ones who openly enjoy it.
I personally like guy players, you know where you stand with them from the start and as long as you do, it's all fine, . but not everyone does and some people get genuinely hurt, but they don't accuse the person who said and did anything they needed to get them into bed of being "mentally ill"
I've known players who have been proud of getting power over women and couldn't care less about deceiving women or hurting them. It doesn't sound very mentally healthy to me.
If someone says they like you then rejects you they generally either lost interested or got spooked (aka they felt it was moving quicker then they were comfortable with). I'm not on the market anymore but when a guy asks you to hang and can leave you wondering what he wants... netflix and chill feels like they are looking to fool around and if your not up for that then you turn it down even if you liked him or you may have just lost interested at this point.
The only time I do is when perverts try to get inappropriate after I warn them to fuck off. Then the harsh rejection comes out.
Otherwise no, I don't lead people on and get enjoyment out of rejecting them.
I've done online dating and I HATE rejecting guys. Even if a guy sends me a nice message, if I feel like there couldn't be anything there I just won't reply. I'd rather ignore him than lead him on and reject him. Rejecting someone is a really ugly feeling and I hate to do it.
@niknac09 I have done it too and most guys have said "wow" or other things. My current guy doesn't say anything at all about my pics I send him lol. Yet when we are together he is very into me. Some guys are just different and express themselves differently. I wouldn't read into his comment at all.
@niknac09 it's just flirty banter. He's attracted to you.
@niknac09 it depends on what you sent
Probably not a good idea to send racy photos to a non-boyfriend
tbvh some of them do. they like the attention and the thrill of being fancied even tho they have no intentions of going out wid you
what the heck are you talking aboout? girls dont lead any guy on, some girls are friendlier than others and most guys assume she likes him BECAUSE she's being friendly.. Fuck you can't even be polite anymore..
no because you're a stuck up bitch that is too damn spoiled for your own damn good and needs to put back in her place! good luck finding a decent guy when your pussy dries up when you hit 30!
Everyone gets rejected at some point in their lives, but if someone leads you on intentionally for the sole purpose of rejecting you then yes, they've got some sort of psychosis lol
I know this probably sounds ridiculous, but I get so excited and turned on when a beautiful woman not only rejects me, but humiliates me with flair as she does so.
No I can't say I've purposefully led a guy on, if they like me and I don't like them its nothing anyone can do ab that
It's no joy rejecting guys. I actually find it uncomfortable doing that.
We live for it! No of course not who likes to reject people that's pretty sadistic
I've encountered some females like this over time. And they do it for "attention" plain and simple.
I don't enjoy rejecting guys, unless they are assholes. If they are assholes, I won't give a shit.
No i hate it to reject someone
and the second thing is, i guess attention
I think those with princess complexes do but the ones who don't probably don't like it.
Uh no, i dont know a girl who does tho..
Some do, but most don't.
i feel nothing when i reject someone
@singlebee no, what i mean is, it's hard to reject someone, but i wish he would get i'm not interested, i never show like i'm interested when i'm not, and still some guys i'm clearly not interested in approach me... then i have to reject them and feel nothing after that, life goes on
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