GUYS! Would you ever miss a date because you fell asleep!?!?

[Anonymous]

that's my situation now! and am so pissed!

Should I forgive him?

[PsychedelicZebra]

I think it depends on how you feel about him. If this is his first big screw up, and you do like him, then you should definitely forgive. If you were on the fence about him, well it's up to you if this is the last straw.

Consider, though, that this is indicative of his character. The fact is, he was honest enough to tell you that he missed the date because he fell asleep. In a weird way, that's kind of confident, because most guys would be embarassed to admit this. Usually they would try to come up with a better excuse, such as "I had to work late" or even "I'm been sick as hell". But he was honest with you, so give him that.

Forgiveness is part of a healthy relationship. If you care about this guy and see a potential future together, don't shoot yourself in the foot just because you are angry.

[digital_haze]

I wouldn't it... No way in hell.

I have had a girl do it to me though. Really makes you feel like crap. Its like "Sorry you're so incredibly unimportant to me that I didn't spend a single second thinking about you and fell asleep because it was more prominent in my mind than you were"

[poisonkizz]

This is just happened to me yesterday. He made me wait for 1 hour and then I change plan and decided to meet up with my girl friends. I will never wait more than 1 hour for a guy in 1st date. After 2 hours he text me that he just woke up! Wtf? Later he text again that he is so fucking sorry.
I will never forgive him. This is obviously a bad sign and maybe he's just not that excited about the date.

[Tamikaze]

This is not a good sign. A guy who is in to you and excited about the date would be too antsy to fall asleep, barring some sort of monumental situation, which is hard for me to imagine, other than he just ended a weekend in Vegas with a few hours of sleep the whole weekend.

Is this a first date or someone you have been seeing for a while? I guess in either case it still is not a good sign.

[Oliviawinters]

It could have been an honest mistake. You should consider that however, question him.

[mikechief]

I would forgive because you may not what the real reason may be, which could probably be a legitimate reason. If the person is stressed out and tired from working all day, then their body needed the sleep. Or what if it was something serious, like a health condition that requires sleep and rest.

[Luisdalopez]

If he fell asleep probably he does not care much about you but if you can forgive him I say it is because you care about him or it might be an excuse for something he was not suposed to be doing I know I would use that excuse.

[snackeyg]

No I'd be way to excited to sleep.