It can be weird for a guy and a girl to do things together if they're not romantically involved. A guy can feel pressure to make things romantic and even though hanging out with a girl can be just like hanging out with a guy who has boobs there's something ingrained in us that makes us feel like it's strange. So we invite our friends to diffuse the awkwardness of going out with a girl, just the two of us.
With that said you guys are best friends so I find it strange that he can't hang out with just you. It's possible that he's trying to cover up some affection for you that might show itself when the two of you are alone. Or it could be the opposite and he thinks that because you want to spend time with just him there's something more going on, and he's bringing his crew to make sure nothing weird happens. Either way I would just say be honest with him, tell him you guys never get to hang out together, just the two of you and maybe tease him for always needing a group of friends in order to hang out with you. Maybe he will come around and realize that it's okay for a guy and a girl to hang out as a pair.
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I would if I suspected you were trying to get me alone to have some talk about feelings you were having, and I didn't share them and I wanted to avoid an awkward conversation.
I also would, if I didn't think I could spend time alone with you and enjoy myself. Like, if you weren't actually my "best" friend, but if you thought we were "best" friends, then okay, cool. I wasn't going to dissuade you.
i think he invites other people because he doesn't have feelings for you and doesn't wanna give the wrong impression by being alone w. you
make it obvious that you don't like him like that and you just think of him as a friend
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Maybe he likes you and he doesn't want to do anything alone so to avoid making a move on you he has A LOT of guests but if you just want to hang out with him I would say you should ask him and tell him what's up
he thinks you like him and if he doesn't like you back, that can create an awkwardness, trust me. lol. if you do like him, and he doesn't like you back, don't push him, this will only irritate him
He's nervous about being alone with you. He might feel awkward in a one on one situation and may not know what to talk about.
never have, never would.
that's just weird.
you should just tell him straight up.
or stop inviting him to do things with you.Tell him. If it makes him mad, stop wasting your time with him.
No, I wouldn't
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