Why do guys constantly ask the girl if she misses him??

[Anonymous]

why does he ask me if I miss him all the time? then I jokingly tell him no so he asks if I still want to see him, so I tell him I do, then he asks why I do if I don't miss him, so I say fine I miss you a little bit, then he says only a little? then at the end of the convo he asked if he is still seeing me tomorrow.

is he insecure, just teasing me, what?

i mean, I know he likes me. doesn't he miss me too, and that's why he's always asking? we are seeing each other for a while already.

[lottierose]

I'd say he is probably being insecure, needing you to confirm you miss him or else he probably won't fully believe it. This reminds me ridiculously of a friend of mine, and for him this was because of a negative outlook, where he always focused on negatives and found reasons to worry/question the little things. They might not be the same, but I don't think he is teasing (or if he is, not without some truth in it)

I'd say the best thing you can do is to respond positively but brush it off a little. Like, "of course, you don't even need to ask". Or, if you do tease, finish with something to let him know your only joking so it doesn't get too serious.

[Lunako]

It's okay for him to ask once in a while if you miss him, but this is just severe insecurity. This isn't going to go away in time, either. Clingy doesn't mean cute and it certainly doesn't mean stable, healthy relationship either. If he can't trust that you care for him, it's time to find someone who does before this becomes an abusive relationship.

[Asker]

well this question ws from a long time ago, I've been done with him for months now :P

[Lunako]

Good deal

[serena18]

WOW! Exactly the same case!

I am not sure if he's playing or what~~

Looking for some answers too

[amaron]

knowing a girl misses me is like knowing for sure she wants me to come back without her saying, I want you to be here with me. he is a little bit unsure if you want him around as much as he wants to be around.