Girlfriend to be won't move out from living with ex...

nastynate7188
okay, I understand this is a very complex situation but let me start with this...the girl I'm dating was married for three months to a guy. got deployed and got divorced the same month. met me halfway through deployment after divorce was already finalized. returned last month hoping to see her move out from the house her ex husband was still living in since at the time when they moved in together they were married...I really love this girl and would do anything for her. I told her I wouldn't give her an ultimatum, but every time she talks about moving out with her ex husband he pretty much hits her only nerve...pleasing people. I know its not the best quality, but this is about the only time I've seen it work to her disadvantage. If I tell her I want her to move out (which I have done before) she gets stressed out, because she wants me to be happy, and even tho I know 100% she has no feelings for her ex, she still wants him to be happy. She hits me with the "you have no idea how difficult this is" thing and honestly I don't...however when I press her too hard she tells me that we should stop seeing each other until she can give me what I want...I don't want that either! Even if I weren't in the picture I would wan her out of there...i mean how can anyone move on living with an ex as a roommate? anyhow, she feels that if I truly love her I will wait, but I also want to take advantage of whatever time we have, and feel like her slow speed of moving out is preventing a more intimate relationship from starting...what should I do guys?
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Thanks for the answers and opinions you all. I think I've landed the Rubik's cube of all relationships. Things are about to change...
Girlfriend to be won't move out from living with ex...
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