I'll tell you why you SHOULD bother.
1. College is the easiest time to meet women. There are clubs and extra-curricular activites like crazy and it is super easy to find something you like and meet women who share that interest. I miss college and wish I had a time machine.
2. You have been single for this long, sure. But since you typed this post it means you are EXTREMELY frustrated. You aren't going to be any less frustrated down the road (I know).
3. Do you really want to die alone? The alternative is to become bi and get interested in men (I cannot even fathom it, myself).
4. I am 27 years old and out of college (I am you a few years down the road, if you are a nerd who started working out). I am a virgin who has never had a girlfriend. I am STILL miserable, but upon reflection I realize there were women who legitimately approached me at times trying to get to know me better (being an inexperienced, socially inept nerd I couldn't understand at the time how to react).
5. Go out. Join a club. Talk with women at the gym. Do everything you can while you are still young, damnit! I have no right to talk being an older version of you, but believe me if you give up now you are done FOREVER. If you really improved yourself over the past two years (we sure do think alike!) then you are a few steps closer to being the ideal 'Mr. Right'.
6. Here's the thing I've come to learn (I'm your senior so listen to me). When you get out of college, you will have an 8-hours or longer work shift. You will sleep 8 hours a day. You will spend an hour working out and probably more time for commuting and showering afterward. It will be early evening at best when you have freedom to try and meet people. That's what it is like to be an adult. The only things left right now to utilize are match-making, blind-dating services and trying to pick-up chicks at bars or something (it will NEVER work, fyi, because every chick will think you are a sleaze bag looking for a one-night stand. because guess who also goes there to pick-up women).
7. If you are like me (I could be wrong but I'm bringing this up anyway), then it might please you to know there are still lots of 'inexperienced' women around who are saving themselves for Mr. Right (an ideal who actually doesn't exist). You can probably come close enough to Mr. Right to save one of these damsels in distress and sweep her off of her feet.
Heh, to be honest you already knew half of this. You just posted this because you wanted some answer or some confirmation that you had the right strategy. I, unfortunately, cannot confirm this. But I can tell you everything I said is either true or very close to the truth.
I don't recommend giving up-because you cannot! As long as you are heterosexual male who fantasizes about meeting a girl and making her yours every night in bed for the rest of your lives, it is impossible to give up short of suicide. Please don't kill or castrate yourself. You can do it, but remember you are aging
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sounds like you have low selfesteem women notice things like that. Start talking to women so what if they say no at least you tried. The reason for this tactic is to get yourself exposed the more you're out there the more they will see you. Don't let it bother you when they tell you no just shake it off and go to the next one. You build confidence when you talk to women on the regular and women love a confident male. Ask any woman I gaurantee they will tell you the same. So stop doubting yourself women can feel it when you fell that you're not worthy. Tell me this if a girl thought that she wasn't worth your time. would you think she was worth your time? women look at things that way so change your mind frame and you'll see a change in your life.
The problem is how your allow yourself to think. "I start thinking about girls and love I just get angry"... instead of focusing on what hasn't happened yet, focus on what you want to happen in the future. An unhappy past can do nothing but bring you down if you choose to dwell on it. Anger is not going to bring a girl into your life. Happiness & hope will. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes you feel good.
"The only guarantee for failure is to stop trying" - John C. Maxwell
“I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.” - Thomas A. Edison
“You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try.” - Beverly Sills
You should stop thinking about girls. When you really stop thinking about it for a while, then you might actually get one. It's just stressing you out too much, and you need to be relaxed for girls to like you.
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