Girls would you forgive a guy that called you a cunt?

[srogers]

okay i called a friend that word last year out of anger and for the next six months she was super mad at me and everyone hated me for it.We have now been speaking to eachother again and i wonder if she will ever forgive me for it. please do you girls forgive/forget beig called that

[ZEDA_X]

but i dont use the word kunt, its just gross. i also dont say pussy or bitch though. i only use gender neutral derogatory words. otherwise im saying more than i intend. if im insulting someone im insulting who they are-the part of them they can control. not what they are- i e their sex.

anyhow to me its less about 'forgiving' I don't know if id really be mad at him for that. id just be uncomfortable that he felt comfortable talking to people that way. and id be uncertain bout being 'friends'.

itd really depend on the situation though. but 'forgive' yeah sure.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Yes. I'd be able to forgive if this guy was sincerely sorry and was a good friend prior to the incident. I guess we are all human and emotions can make us say things we don't always mean. With that said, I'd probably never be able to see you in the same light again. You might be my fried then again but I'd never forget what you did.

[justbanANNAz]

never. that is absolutely disgusting behaviour.

whoever says it, man or woman, is just….. beyond low in my eyes…. because out of their entire lexicon, they could not manage to find a word other than that to express their emotions.

[AndyWes]

interesting that that's such an insult, even though p---y or b---h is not.

I've read it has something to do with the consonants, since it begins and ends on sharp sounds, a c and a t. Like how Socialist is a much more accepted word that Communist.

[ZEDA_X]

intersting...yet cock dosnt bother people.

k sounds are my favorite. lol.

[godfatherfan]

OK ladies, I am calling bullshit on someone. My ex-wife used to call women cunt's from time to time. So I know a lot of you women use it because she told me that sometimes someone is just a cunt

[bubbiexo]

That's one of the most tactless and tasteless things you can do-- call someone such a dirty word. I might be able to forgive you, but I would never look at you the same way again.

[srogers]

she said some pretty mean things as well

[bubbiexo]

Well then you could feel the same way about her. There is no need for name calling.

[srogers]

lets say a guy was dating you and he saod this to you would you dump him

[bubbiexo]

Oh yes. In a heartbeat. I would never call my boyfriend such a name, and I expect the same.

[srogers]

what if you guys were friends would you stop being his friend

[bubbiexo]

Not necessarily, but out friendship would suffer definitely.

[srogers]

would you date him

[bubbiexo]

Nope

[srogers]

Should i apologize for calling her that word

[bubbiexo]

Yes, you should definitely apologize to her. That's a good start :)

[srogers]

should i tell her that i accidently called her that word and it slipped

[EmeraldSky]

Nope, ever. It is the ultimate disrespect and it shows how little he truly values our friendship if he would just let that fly out of his mouth.

[DanteSparda]

Well That's a derogatory term for women.
What do you expect from her? coming back to you?
Maybe she'll forgive you but she won't "FORGET"..!

[KhaysunDei]

dude, i know i wouldn't forgive a guy if he called me that (say i'm a girl okay?)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Not really. Unless he was drunk or high

[srogers]

i was sober it was a weird situation we were fighting

[ronnieradkelover]

Yea, if he was rlly srry

[chocolateismylover]

Yeah, I'd forgive him.

[srogers]

sweet