Heyy Gagers :)Welp this is me...I look happy right? Well I came a long ways. I wasn't always this happy, I always had insecurity's worried what everyone thought of me..and didn't to much care about life anymore. I was very miserable, I grew up in a house full of brothers...they called me ugly, fat, made fun of me....then i went to school & got the same treatment.
As I got older I starting dating the wrong guys they would cheat on me, lie to me, they made me feel worthless, I gave up on love, I gave up on me, I soon became very depressed. I hated who I was I didn't feel beautiful....I felt dead to the world. After my last break up I then said enough is enough! I packed my bags moved out of state. I had to escape from the darkness.
I made the most important decision of my life, the one that will affect every other decision that i made, & that was the commitment to love and accept myself. The moment I started loving myself my life did a drastic change. I started working towards my goals getting out way much more meeting new people, I joined a bowling league and met the most greatest man ever & now where engaged! He loves me for who I truly am.
I was heartless in the beginning but then he showed me how to love. He made feel beautiful again. I begin to really start loving myself. I am so proud of who I became. Well that's my story feel free to share yours.Everyone should build a strong relationship with their self and love who they are :)
Okay so here somethings that can help you love yourself.
1. Take all the negative things out of your life. Especially negative people.
2. Forgive your past.
3. Believe in yourself.
4. Form relationships where you feel loved and appreciated.
5. Figure Out how you could make your life better....And Then Do It!
6. Take care of your body love the skin that your in stay healthy & positive.
7. Treat yourself. You deserve it!
8. Be in charge of your life.
"There are always going to be people in your life that have some control over you, like your parents, teacher, or boss.
You’re mainly in charge of your own life.
You can do whatever you want to do!
You have the power to make your own decisions.
Life can take you off course, but the overall direction you take is all up to you." - Mya
9. Seek a relationship with God.
He loves us so much that ‘he gave his one and only Son' so we could have eternal life (John 3:16).
Romans 3:23-24 tells us that even though we are all sinners, ‘we are justified freely by his grace.' Because we belong to Him, God provides us the strength we need each day (Philippians 4:13).
The Lord doesn't judge you. He loves you for who you are.
10. Lay off the social Networking.
Spend less time on social network like Facebook, etc has created a false sense of insecurity, low self esteem and low self confidence in a lot of people, especially teens. Realize that no-one is as happy or successful or healthy as they appear on Facebook.
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Why to love yourself?
Because you are unique!
And the most beautiful thing about being yourself is the fact that there's only one of you! There is nobody quite like you. Be proud of who you are. We sometimes feel the need to start doing all these crazy, things to appear unique, but fact is that it's so much simpler than that. Just by being who you are you're already unique. No need for trying.
Your Awesome! & of course your not perfect nobody is, if there's people out there that can love you for who you are...then why shouldn't you love yourself? You can't love no one else without loving yourself. So compliment yourself today. Point out all the positive things about yourself.Get out of the house do something, join a sport, accomplish your goals. Chase your dreams....live life to the fullest...you only live your life! Live, Laugh, Love YOURSELF. So you can spread the love.
If your struggling with self hate please read this take. Talk to a close friend or love one or feel free to message me.Your not alone learn to love yourself <333
Thanks for reading :)
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