No offense but you're boyfriend kind of sounds like a douche. Texting if you're going to be late or just texting someone back in general is common courtesy, not something that would change the kind of person he is. Unless he wants to be rude.
As for him using tinder while he's in a relationship, that's just stupid. It's an app for dating and hooking up. I don't know what else you can get out of that? The fact that he's active on it is seriously disconcerting.
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Wait, your boyfriend is using Tinder? Is this an open relationship?
To be considerate or sensitive towards other feelings isn't asking one to change for another. Being sensitive/considerate to people is a virtue, many people would understand it. I am thinking maybe he isn't willing to see this flaw of his and find excuses not to improve..
everybody should not take others feelings for granted so you aren't at fault
No your not. I been in your situation. But no your simple asking for him to show he interest and it a simple way to just show you care. You dont wanna be the one to always make contact 1st so your not asking alot. And in no way is that changing him it just putting some effort in the relationship it takes two after all.
No, he's just a selfish ass. If he was mine, I'd leave him, or at least treat him like shit for a while and tell him not to try and change me when he complains about it
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If he's using Tinder and your only concern is that he's not texting you while doing it, I'd say he's doing a great job of deflecting responsibilities.
Your boyfriend's a cunt.
Tell him to stop being a TOTAL prick.
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