While it could be sex related, it will definitely be part if not completely about your behaviour when on your period.
I love my partner but my god she can be hard work when due on. I don't always have the patience or tolerance of argumentative aggressive behaviour that suddenly turns to hysterical crying triggered by her over sensitive emotions due to being hormonal.
Think how people complain about man flu and having to look after a sick man, it's pretty much the same thing where not everyone has a nurturing patience to look after someone. A girl on her period always ends up wanting you to run errands and do her favours in between insulting you hating you and blaming you for her being upset.
"During my period i get very emotional, irritable, bad tempered, painful cramp,"
That's why
Hmmmm, he's using your 'crankiness and mood swings' as an excuse. What an asshole! If he doesn't wanna see u during your period then he shouldn't be allowed to see u when you ARE on your period. When you're a couple, u take the good with the bad. If he can't handle u at your worst then he shouldn't have you at your best. U could always suggest that you're on your period but u want to try anal sex or give him a bj just to see if it really is your mood swings that affect him. And then if he comes over then you 100percent have your answer. Slam the door in his face. Good luck xx
A very emotional and irritable person is not pleasant to be around. If you get temperamental during your period it's best to just keep yourself company until the moods pass. It's not very considerate to expect him to gladly hang with you during that time. When you feel your moods getting out of whack keep your distance from others and curl up with yourself. That's the considerate thing to do.
DUMP HIS ASS. It doesn't matter how bad tempered, or moody you get... a good guy will be there whenever wherever for you. NO IF ANDS OR BUTS. You deserve better.
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"emotional, irritable, bad tempered, painful cramp, I just want to curl up on the chair with a hot water bottle."
Why in the world would you think he'd want to deal with that? Why would you want him to have to deal with that?
When I'm on my period, I try not to make my boyfriend deal with it too much. Shit, I don't like dealing with myself when I'm on my period. I sure as hell don't want to make my boyfriend suffer as well.
Maybe because he feels like it's better if he just leaves you alone, considering that you're in pain and also irritable. He's probably afraid that he'll say/do something wrong, which will make you overreact. I think his excuse is very valid. And the fact that you now assume that he only wants sex from you because he doesn't want to see you when you're on your period kind of proves his point. You're overreacting.
your probably right. if he won't see you on the days that you can't fuck... there's your answer
not too many women are at their best when aunt flo is in town but married couples manage to make it, shit the husbands don't move out for a week when their wives are on their periods.
A girl being on her period has nothing to do with a guy not wanting to see her. There are some underlying problems he does not want to talk about. And he probably just is using your period as an excuse to avoid you. Not all girls act that way on their period
Is he affectionate, not sexually touching, otherwise?
Read your first sentence and you'll have your answer. He probably just doesn't want to accidentally upset you when you're in that heightened emotional state.
Dump his ass. I can assure you right here he is with you for sex only no matter what other say. Even my Boyfriend did the same with me one day he called me to meet him and I told him I'm on my periods. After just 10-20 minutes later, he called me saying babe I just left for some office work. And I knew from that very moment he is a cheating bastard. Try this once. If he is with you for sex only he won't come to meet you, because he won't be getting laid, so why would he?
He prob doesn't want to upset you and understand that its your most vunerable state so he feels that its best for him to stay away so he doesn't upset you
I am asking this not to justify his behavior, but just for better understanding..
Do you know if you suffer from Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder?
During my period i get very emotional, irritable, bad tempered
I'm sure that's why. If you freak out at him for basically nothing I'm sure hew figures it's best to just let you be
Because he can't get sex at the moment lol
I think that too.
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