Quiet love-- does small things to show she cares, is there whenever you need her, lets you have your freedom but trusts you not to abuse it, prefers quality time over quantity, treats the relationship like its sacred, not something to brag about to discuss with other people, may not do a lot of pda but showers you with affection when you are alone, etc.
Loud love- posts about it, professes her love to you vocally more than once, may be needy, clingy, and possessive, loves to vocalize how you are her man, "touchy-feely" whenever you are somewhere, some can be territorial, loves pda, more public about the relationship, showers you with affection in public and alone, but more so in public, etc.
Note everyone will fill every part of 'quiet' or 'loud' love-- this is just my interpretation of it. Personally, I fit into and usually show quiet love. From my experience (NOT saying this is always the case, just based on my personal experiences with guys), this works the best for men that are older and secure (work their own job, emotionally stable) and less so when the guy is my age and insecure or less emotionally stable. The last time I dealt with the latter, he claimed I didn't love him and questioned my feelings for him. He would try to 'test' me by flirting with other girls to make me jealous, but when I wouldn't react, would lash out at me. It wasn't until he broke up with me and some time passed (he dated another girl) that he realized all the things I did that proved my feelings for him and he wanted me back.
Most of my guy friends have voiced they prefer a girl that shows loud love because it shows she is proud to be with him and because they feel loved and cared for. I want to know what other guys think? Do you prefer quiet or loud love from a girl?
Loud love- posts about it, professes her love to you vocally more than once, may be needy, clingy, and possessive, loves to vocalize how you are her man, "touchy-feely" whenever you are somewhere, some can be territorial, loves pda, more public about the relationship, showers you with affection in public and alone, but more so in public, etc.
Note everyone will fill every part of 'quiet' or 'loud' love-- this is just my interpretation of it. Personally, I fit into and usually show quiet love. From my experience (NOT saying this is always the case, just based on my personal experiences with guys), this works the best for men that are older and secure (work their own job, emotionally stable) and less so when the guy is my age and insecure or less emotionally stable. The last time I dealt with the latter, he claimed I didn't love him and questioned my feelings for him. He would try to 'test' me by flirting with other girls to make me jealous, but when I wouldn't react, would lash out at me. It wasn't until he broke up with me and some time passed (he dated another girl) that he realized all the things I did that proved my feelings for him and he wanted me back.
Most of my guy friends have voiced they prefer a girl that shows loud love because it shows she is proud to be with him and because they feel loved and cared for. I want to know what other guys think? Do you prefer quiet or loud love from a girl?
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