Do girls like emotional guys?

[Anonymous]

I'm a very passionate guy, I'm very emotional I guess. I don't cry or anything like that but just if I'm sad, it ruins my entire day but if I'm happy, I usually am, I'm totally great. I usually don't go out of my way to be overly friendly to people I don't know but people I care about like friends or family, ill do anything to make them happy. Is this something a girl finds attractive? I mean I might be kind of a d*** to people I don't know but once your in, your in, ill treat you better then I treat myself

[sambam]

I think it's good that you're in touch with your emotions and a lot of girls would be find that a desirable quality. However, I think the "if I'm sad, it ruins my whole day" may be a bit much. While girls want emotionally-in-touch guys, they also want them to be emotionally stable. Being emotional is great, but make sure you still stay "manly."

As for caring for your family and friends, I think any girl would love that. You sound like a nice guy, but make sure that you treat people equally. A girl will find it attractive if you're kind to her and people you know, but if you're a jerk to all her friends or new people you meet, she'll really dislike that.

[Asker]

It doesn't really show when I'm having a bad day, but it eats at me on the side ALOT. I'm good a putting up a front I guess

[sambam]

Alright, that sounds okay at least. I'd probably say that a lot of guys feel that way though. They're upset but they put on a good front...

[liltaylz911]

well being a passionate guy is very attractive and very hard to find. so you have a unique quality! usually to a girl, someone who understands her and is a very sensitive and understanding person such as yourself, will either be ut in the extremely attractive catergory, or the girly guy friend. so watch out about how nice and passionate you are. and sometimes, to a lot of girls it can be a big turn on for a guy to understand a girl and comfort her, it can make girls want to JUMP on them lol. hope this helped! =D good luck

[Smitherss]

Girls defoo go for this.. If their in the relationship to be with you and because they like and not anything else, this is definitely a bounus...

Girls don't like when guys don't seem to care at all about how they feel, and as you probably know we need a lot of attention and care, you seem like the perfect bf, so don't change :D x

[Asker]

I mean I would litterally do anything to make a girl that I cared about happy, I think they think I'm just some big mean guy because I say how I feel exactly how I feel, I speak my mind but I'm just misunderstood I think

[avksx]

Find a balance in your life. Learn to be passionate and empathetic, but emotionally stable. It's a difficult task, but it definitely will draw women to you, as few men can master it.

Think of it this way...

Would you rather be with:

A) Girl who swung through moods like Tarzan swings through trees.

B) Girl who was emotionally devoid and shut off.

C) Girl who is open and understanding her emotions and the emotions of others and deals with them in healthy manner.

Most girls would pick "C", if given a choice in guys. Be Guy C.

[KayleighP]

I don't think that people think its weird for guys to be emotional, most girls find it really sweet, becaue it shows that you care and can empathise with others. Whereas if you were someone that really didn't care for the girls feelings, then it would seem untrustworthy and like they couldn't really talk to you, which is a massive problem.

[Smitherss]

I think that you'll find a girl who'll understand you for you who actually are and not who other people might think you are, if your really worried and think this is affecting your life, tell the people your close to how emotional you actually are :)

[brebre3245]

i wish my boyfriend was more like you I have to force out of him what's wrong. there are times wheni feel like I'm walking on egg shells around him because I don't know hows he's feeling