I found different kinds of knives in my boyfriend's house, should I be worried?

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I was with my boyfriend yesterday and we ad sex, then he went downstairs to bring us something to drink and I was exploring the room as usual. And I found a small box under the bed full with different kinds of knives, I freaked out and i tried to hide it again but he come back and was like FUCK! I ask him about it and he said it's not his! Then he said it's not a big deal and I shouldn't worry bout it. After a while he said I would never hurt you with anything because you mean the world to me. I couldn't feel comfortable so i  told him that I need to leave because I'm not feeling well and we will talk later but i'm avoiding him since yesterday because im scared and don't know what to do. Is this something serious?

OrdinaryGentleman · Accepted Answer

Its weird or wrong to collect a utility or something you enjoy? seriously my mom was the one going psycho over me owning knives and I used them for camping, backpacking or display... Your boy kinda let you go crazy by pretending they weren't his probably because he wanted to keep you happy. Honestly just let it go, talk to him about why it made you uncomfortable, I think its quite sad that young women are so feeble nowadays.

Ihav2fart · Accepted Answer

Knives like those? Nothing to be worried about.  We're boys with toys. :) I'd be more worried about him lying about them not being his! Also, shame on you for snooping!

GingerBear · Accepted Answer

I have several different knives, a couple next to my bed, and a few more on my shelf. I like a beautiful knife, and I collect them. Maybe your boyfriend is the same. Maybe he didn't want to freak you out, or maybe they belong to a friend or family member who collects them, and couldn't keep them at their house for some reason or another.

Maybe just ask him whose they are?

Macaquinho · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend has lots of knives, it's very serious to him, he does not play with them or anything like that and he is definitely not careless. So if your guy has respect for his blades and collects them, doesn't play around then I'd say it's fine.

iamshelly · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't be worried about him collecting knives since that's something a lot of people do. I'd be more worried about him lying about them not being his, then feeling the need to tell you he wouldn't hurt you.

singlebee · Answer

Well some people collect guns of different types and even knifes of different types... because they love to keep a collection of them... but that does not mean they are KILLERS! 😊

But only you know your boyfriend... soo... if he is a good guy then nothing to worry about!

JuicyBrain · Answer

I have many knives and I even have guns. I am a perfectly balanced person who has killed almost nobody ! I just like knives. Don't know why, I just do. I use them all the time for different purposes, never to cut anybody. They are toys that disguises as tools.

Anonymous · Answer

Haha I was having a boring day till you came out with this question haha foreal no you shouldn't worry maybe you watch a lot of scary movies but no if he wanted to kill you he would of done I when he came up stairs... Haha I mean i would of if I was a killer but thankfully I'm not 😊

Northeast106 · Answer

Nothing to worry about. Most men keep some type of weapon around the house, in case of break ins or if anything goes down. I think we are just wired that way. Most men I know have some type of weapon in the house, and in their car.

K1ll3r98 · Answer

he's a guy, hell, i have knives throughout my room. they are probably just a hobby for him. i have a friend with 20+ knives on his bedside table alone. we just have them for fun.

i am actually playing with my knife now, lol

Pat8707 · Answer

if he said they were his it would not be strange at all; knives are cool. But the fact that he either tried to deny it means that he knew you wouldn't like it or he's doing something shady. That being said I doubt there's anything shady going on.

Anonymous · Answer

Having knives is completely fine and I love collecting them. It doesn't mean I'm going to use them against anyone but it's fun collecting them.
It's a very common hobby actually as a few of my friends collect them or I've met people who've had them.
You can always ask him all of this ^^^ and see what he says

Anonymous · Answer

Lol, I collect guns and knives. Just a thing to do. Sometimes go to a range, sometimes outdoors activities. As long as he isn't running in gangs, no problem.

timetraveller1 · Answer

some guys do like collecting knives, if you feel its bothering you talk with him, if you feel its more than that get the fuck out!

Prochnost · Answer

Knives are just a collectible hobby.  Usually because dumbasses like me have no idea what to spend money on. ;P

Anonymous · Answer

I have a knife collection and only killed a few so chill.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

haha my brother has machetes and katanas, and a girl freaked out when she saw them in his closet =) he just spends his money like a kid would and buys fun sharp things lol

PrincessTashaaaa · Answer

Boys like their toys. He probably just thinks they're cool. My boyfriend has a few knives. Boys don't really grow up that way haha

mskay · Answer

I have a collection of pocket knives and swords.. should my future boyfriend be worried lol?

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

it's a knife collection. it's no big deal. i almost bought 250 one time for $100 and it came with 2 katanas. he probably keeps them away so people don't go through his shit.

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

Having knives is pretty normal, I collect them. His overreaction is definitely not normal, I would avoid him.
Normal collectors don't act like you caught them. with something naughty or horrible, when you simply find a collection. It's a red flag.

Noxifer626 · Answer

Maybe he's a knife collector. And he tried to deny it because you seemed worried?

ixi10 · Answer

Well then who does the box of knives belong to?

PLLFan21 · Answer

I guess people collect knives... But I don't know why he would lie about it and say they are "not his."

lovely_rose524 · Answer

if you feel dangerous you should not telling him straight out that you need to leave or else you'll give him the feeling of you will report him or something. you should have made an excuse with 'i'll be back'.

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