Why do guys like me so much?

[Anonymous]

I am a shy and introverted girl but when I open up I can talk you to death and I like to make you laugh. I just feel insecure at the fact guys seem so intrigued by me because I didn't know guys liked that type of personality. When I'm with my friend who is loud and flirty guys seem to not pay too much attention to her but stare at me, she gets dates a lot but after the guys sleep with her they dump her. I thought guys liked her type of personality. I just feel kind of overwhelmed at the fact that guys seem to act like their crazy about me when I'm so reserved.

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+1 y

I'm also very blunt and not so flirty acting

[kaylaS91]

Guys like you because, contrary to popular beliefs, most prefer to have a girl with a personable, approachable type of personality. They might date your friend for the guaranteed sexual satisfaction she gives them but opening your legs will generally not guarantee much longevity to any kind of relations if that's what the foundation was built on.

[Jon_Gre_g]

True I would like a girl who could make me laugh and feel comfortable.

[kaylaS91]

@Jon_Gre_g yeah, understandably. Like it may be fun to sleep with a girl with NSA but it's not worth to invest much into individuals like that when your benefiting from them will be quite short-lived.

[Jon_Gre_g]

Yeah that's why I don't sleep around bruh. I looking for relationship material : D

[Balcazaurus]

You're probably just easy to talk to. Guys like that: a girl not necessarily feeling like a every girl is a challenge.

[Anonymous]

You may be more attractive than your friend and shy girls are better in bed. They are also easier to get along with.

[rjroy3]

Looks and possibly something in your personality if they have time to see it.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

lol, that's pretty hilarious about your friend... not gonna lie.

[Anonymous]

Because guys like a bit of a challenge to get a girl some times and you look more challenging

[skeptic007]

they think your cute don't over think it

[apple24]

maybe ur pretty!