Why do unattractive virgin guys are more picky than attractive nonvirgin guys?

[Anonymous]

Most of the times.

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*unattractive looking virgins
*attractive looking nonvirgins

[zerrozero7]

attractive non virgin guys are also picky as well. we just are able to get our pick. men generally have a very similar level of pickiness, but the attractive ones have a possibility to become pickier over time. unattractive virgins will eventually lose their pickiness and settle. although that may not be what you are asking. You may be asking about why the guy you think is under your league is overly stubborn and super picky. Those people are just weird and might have some sort of issue. Generally virgin guys start out with very small pickiness whether they are high or low on the attractiveness scale. It is all about ego and how much of an inflated sense of grandeur that they may have for the unattractive virgins. It they have something wrong with their head and don't readapt and start out with too high of a sense of attractiveness, they will stay the same level of pickiness. Comparing Non Virgin Attractive guys and Virgin unattractive Guys is not a very good comparison of people. The better question is Non virgin unattractive guys and virgin unattractive guys. The difference between the two will better answer your question on why virgin guys that are unattractive too picky for their own good. Looking back on history, it has actually been beneficial for guys to be as unpicky as possible so that they spread their genes.

Conclusion

Picky unattractive Virgin guys are an abnormality and may have something in their heads.
Most guys are unpicky when they are virgins regardless of how attractive they are.
The more picky someone is, they more attractive they think they are.
Attractive non virgin guys may be just as picky, only they have the options to pick and the unattractive virgin guys just don't have anyone to pick from and haven't quite learned to be less picky because they haven't realized that they are thinking that they are more attractive than they actually are.

[Anonymous]

well being one myself, there's my reason then there's other guys.

My reason is because, I still believe in that "My one and only" thing. I don't think you ever had your heart broken until you involve sex with a relationship. But I've seen it happen to other people and I'm scared of getting hurt. So I'm picky about the girl I want to share my first time with. I want it to last forever. Guys who can get girls no problem are more than used to heart ache and get over it quickly because well, he's good looking and can get another girl no problem. Ugly people, like myself, can't. So I wanna make sure the chances of things working out are the best that they can be.

Then there's the other ugly virgin guys who are bitter towards women because no one wants to have sex with them. They use being picky as an excuse.

[JustinM]

I like that idea of it.

[BiscuitesSwag]

I think (based on what I have seen/heard in real life, it may not be true) it's because virgins have seen just photoshopped bodies of models, so no matter how ugly they are, they think that they deserve that because they have a penis.
While non-virgins know how a normal body looks like and know that sex with someone is better than masturbating at porn.

[Asker]

Lol that's so true

[BiscuitesSwag]

Thanks for MHO. ☺

[xslope]

Maybe they think that if they have been holding back for that long, they won't go for nothing that wouldn't be special for them? It could also just the they seem picky because they don't have social skills to show their interest or do not have self confidence to show it.

[UtopianLobotomy]

Brains. They have higher functioning cognitive faculties and would appreciate the same in a potential mate.

Does the virgin part make the guy unattractive to you? Is it kind of a herd mentality thing with the kids these days?

[Asker]

I updated

[JustinM]

Said like a true sir

[ThisDudeHere]

Because they don't want to settle with a random sloot.

[Asker]

No some attractive non virgins don't either. But I mean they aren't so picky about grils body they love as other ugly virgins are.

[ThisDudeHere]

Could be because the more experienced guys (btw y r u calling virgins ugly?) have seen more naked bodies and are thus aware of what they're actually like and know that they're not even close to what they are in movies and pornos. Virgins may simply have heightened standards because they don't have the experience to know that what they want is barely if ever as perfect as they imagine it to be.

[coolbreeze]

Because virgin girls are just as picky. Why settle for anything? I feel people have a right to be picky up to a certain extent.

[hifromkai]

Because virgin guys have grown up with unrealistic expectations and they think that there is such thing as perfect... Reality is until they know how inexperienced they really are then they think they know everything...

[Anonymous]

First of, I doubt that is true. Second of, if you're a virgin you could want someone special to be your first you know. That more than merits a bit of extra pickiness.

[zagor]

You answered your own question. Nonvirgin guys are that way because they're not so picky.

[Asker]

What?

[Anonymous]

They don't want a random sloot is a good answer. The nature of the question is bad and the selected answer is worse. Seriously? who cares? There are attractive and unnatractive virgins and non virgins.