My boyfriend is attracted to my sister. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

He denies that he is attracted to my sister but his actions dont match what he is telling me. He gets mad because he thinks im acussing him of liking my sister. Am I overreacting?

[FemWorship]

I would get mad too! even if she was cute and know that this is very common but not to worry
unless you continue to ruin their relationship in this way
b/c
both of them are candidates to keeping your boyfriend cemented in your relationship, no others can be as strong as them

If he wanted to be with her, HE'D DO IT
so quit defaming YOURSELF
for this is what's afoot

[Mesonfielde]

Well if he finds you physically attractive and your sister looks similar to you considering you have similar genetics it is honestly not at all surprising that he would be somewhat attracted to your sister too.

[Mesonfielde]

P. S. yes overreacting

[Asker]

we don't look alike. we have different fathers. she is light and im dark.

[dipta]

It's one thing finding someone attractive, another completely different telling your girlfriend you had a wet dream with them, much less with her sister!

Why is he in jail?
Without knowing more details, I would keep my time, money and pride, and keep away from him!!

[Anonymous]

Hire a pi to follow and see what he is doing behind your back. if he is cheating on you with your sister or someone else, a good pi will find out. if he is just attracted to your sister and doesn't intent to act on it, there is nothing you can do

[Chrissymaynor]

Well , what has he been doing for you to think that he likes your sister?

[Asker]

he has always flirting and he had a wet dream about her

[matheus_mb]

Many people are attracted to many people. If he's not making advances over your sister, if he doesn't actually act like he likes her instead of you, then I think you can give him a chance.

[Asker]

I am prolly overreacting. But he told me he tried to talk to her on facebook before he talked to me. He claims he thought we looked a like and got us mixed up.

[matheus_mb]

Got it... but he's with you now and not with her. Consider this a fortunate "accident".

[Asker]

In his dream he said he was having sex with my sister and that I walked in on them and then he said I joined in. I don’t like that. What does that even mean? Like im second place.

[matheus_mb]

Oh, really? Well, I don't think it means you're in the second place, but I think that it really means he has at least a little bit of desires towards your sister. Dreams produce what's in our minds...

[MadeInAmerica]

There isn't nothing you can do. I think your being a bit insecure. However, as long as he doesn't try to screw your sister, I don't see an issue.

[Asker]

I feel like he is just using me. BUt I guess im dumb bc im still with him.

[MadeInAmerica]

Using you how? Based off this or other things?

[Asker]

Like he is locked up right now. I send him money and write letters to him. But he will super friendly towards my sister. He even told me he had a wet dream about her.

[MadeInAmerica]

Oh I understand why you feel insecure now. I don't think you over reacting at all. Yes you are being used. You will never get more attention from someone then when they are locked up.

[Asker]

So should I break up with him?

[MadeInAmerica]

I don't think you should be with someone who is incarcerated. There isn't nothing than can do for you in there relationship wise but be a drain on you.

[Asker]

He gets out in two months

[Dim_121]

yes break up with him and worn your sister about him.

[Anonymous]

If he's not behaving inappropriately, and you don't think he really prefers her to you... relax.

Reality is, you probably share a bunch of traits with her. It's probably pretty normal to find your partner's same sex siblings somewhat attractive.

[Asker]

I feel like the only reason he hasn’t done anything because he knows my sister isn’t interested.

[coolbro1991]

Guys are attracted to woman even when hitched. Does not mean we will do something we shouldn't. Also a bit insecure. Do you not trust your relationship? Ask yourself that and be honest. Talk to him about it and discuss it.

[Red88xxx]

If he finds your sister attractive that's one thing you can't control who you think is pretty but if he is actually thinking of acting on it by telling you this you its a little worrying ):

[Asker]

He gets angry when I ask if he is attracted to my sister. He told me he had a wet dream about her.

[Red88xxx]

You should just make sure that your sister knows that he finds her attractive and ask her if she would tell him that she wouldn't go and start a relationship with him when he's already in a relationship with you

[Asker]

In his dream he said he was having sex with my sister and that I walked in on them and then he said I joined in. I don’t like that. What does that even mean? Like im second place. Should I break up with him?

[Red88xxx]

Maybe you should its okay if you find an other woman attractive but you shouldn't put your girlfriend in a position where she feels like she's only second place

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice. I will give it some time before I make my final decision. I want to use logic instead of my emotions.

[Red88xxx]

You should always put logic first (:

[Asker]

Sometimes I don’t use logic. I let my emotions take over so this time im just going to review everyones opinion and then make my decision.

[Red88xxx]

I know what your saying and I wanted to know if you wanted to be friends with me so maybe we could talk about this more (:

[Asker]

Yeah we can be friends

[Red88xxx]

(: (:

[Sexualchrist]

Well, I mean the answer is staring you right in the face. 3 way.

[Asker]

My sister is way prettier than me. Plus im not into stuff like that. Its crazy you said that because he said he had a wet dream about my sister.

[Sexualchrist]

I was only joking. You can't do a 3 way with your sister, that's just wrong.

I think you need to break up with him. Your sister can't have him either because it will just cause problems between you and your sister.
However, if your sister is prettier than you this could be a problem which happens again in the future

[Intraluminal]

He thinks that you're accusing him of liking your sister because you *are* accusing him of liking your sister.

Are you overreacting? Hard to say.

[Asker]

He has said things to hint at being attractive to her. He told me im a 7 on a scale from 1-10

[Intraluminal]

What's your sister 1 to 10?

[Asker]

He never answered that. To me she is a 10.

[Love-travel]

break up with him and find yourself another man. problem solved!!!

[Anonymous]

Dump him.

[apple24]

You should break up with him!

[Walls_and_Doors]

Give him your sister.

[Asker]

you are right.

[Kylesar]

What are his actions?