I tend to hesitate if I like the girl a lot.
1) I want her to have a good impression of me I. e. I have a life outside of my phone.
2) The more I get to know her by text the more nervous I become in real life. (only the early stages)
3) I prefer to find out things face to face. If we meet once and I get her number there's a lot of 'Where do u go to uni' I. e. boring interview questions. I want to have basic knowledge before we start texting
4) yesterday I got a Girls number at the library. I won't text her until 1 week because I have exams in the next 2 weeks. But if i did text her for 2 weeks straight and couldn't meet because I have exams it would make our relationship texting. In other words i want to get to know her face to face as much as possible. It gets awkward if u meet after so long.
5) If I text a Girl I feel forced to continue the convo because I will look like I'm playing games when I'm not.
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Absolutely. You don't want to come off as desperate or too available.
WORD OF ADVICE- Hey fellows! Don't listen to all that rubblish that says you must wait 3 days before you text a girl. It doesn't work on high quality girls. ( we don't have time to play games, and there is a good chance you will miss out) so if you like a woman, don't be a player, pick up that phone, and book that date!
Me = Never initiate any form of communication with anyone. Online or offline.
I just respond or reply.
Of course they hesitate. Especially, if they are shy and unsure if the girl likes them or not.
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sometimes... don't want to seem desperate or like i'm always the one initiating the conversation.
it needs to be balanced, and i feel awkward if it's not :/Yes most men hesitate, even if they eventually go through with it, they don't want to screw up.
Hell yeah I hesitate with anything having to do with a crush lol even simple conversations in person I will end up getting butterflies
i text as i'm walking away w/ her number...
Yes, usually I don't text her at all
lol yes.
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