Guys, do you like teaching girls what to do in bed?

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm 18, and have never had sex before. Not only that, I've never even touched myself either! I know what happens, I'm not stupid. I just... haven't. And while I get the general idea, I only know two positions for sex, and of course I've never been undressed in front of a guy so I'm kinda super shy about it.

That said, the guy I've recently started seeing is older than me. And he's experienced. I don't know how many girls he's been with, he's not the type to flaunt such things. But sometimes when we're kissing he sort of starts playing with my shirt, and he's touched my breasts a few times. I like it. And I do want to go further, but he doesn't know I've never slept with anyone. And I'm afraid of being naked in front of him. I have a nice body shape, flat stomach, decent sized breasts, but I have acne on my back and a little bit on my chest so that doesn't help my insecurity. But yeah, OBVIOUSLY I don't know what I'm doing, so I actually have a few questions too.

Do you guys mind showing a girl around the bedroom?
Does it bother you guys when she's never been with anyone before?
Do you mind when she has acne on her back?

And for any girls, how can I not be so nervous about undressing in front of a guy?

I do like showing them what to do

I don't like it, too much work

Other (explain?)

[God_of_Thunder]

Very few guys would have a problem showing a girl what to do, in bed, as well as teaching her what her body is capable of. It's a sign of trust, on her part, and that can be really sweet, and romantic.

No decent guy would ever make a girl feel self concious about her imperfections, so he likely won't even mention your acne, don't worry. Especially not after the trust she is showing him, by letting herself be naked and vulnerable, for him.

I've been with a couple of virgins, and it's never been anything but sweet. Just relax, enjoy yourself, and don't worry about your body image. I guarantee you'll be more worried about it than he will.

[JandM2014]

I don't mind it at all & it wouldn't bother me at all that she hadn't been with anyone before.

& no I wouldn't care about acne either.

The most important thing I think is if you want a him to guide you is that you two talk about it at least a little beforehand, & try to agree to communicate more than usual & understand it may not be perfect & that's okay.

The better you two can communicate & help guide each other the better.

Hope it all works out great! 🍀

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend would love it- i was virgin n didn't have anything sxual before

[Hyperjackedmoon]

you should tell him. It will make you very special for him knowing that he gets to experience you first. Its like buying a new car, no ones farted in the seat and mistreated it. So I think you should tell him and if you want to do your homework look up some Q&As on the first time from girls your age that know what they are going through. They might have some tips they wish they knew

[Anonymous]

I have spent a surprising amount of time showing girls how to suck me off