When a man says "I love your curves" is he basically saying "you're fat but I like it"?

[Anonymous]

I hear this often. Am I the only one that feels like I'm being called fat when a guy says "I love your curves"?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Ugh. Shit like this is so fucking ridiculous. No, he's not calling you fat, most men use curvy to actually mean curvy.

Stop reading so much into it and take a freaking compliment. He finds you attractive. End of story, go start drama with another thing, because this ain't it.

[Thisnotthat]

Seriously go fuck yourself

[winterfox10]

@Thisnotthat What are you getting upset about?

[VictoriaVille]

I look on curvy as a shapely figure as opposed to being like a plank... straight up and down with no shape lol

curvaceous is a shape it doesn't mean you're fat. If he said you're round , then I'd be concerned lol

[EmpatheticLady]

Not at all. He could love your hips, tits, and ass when he refers to your curves. There's nothing wrong with having those by any means in my book.

[Mommabear20202020]

Watch your mouth dude. People don't talk like that lol your a pervert and just so you know milk bags are only for babies so you must be a pedo if you think otherwise

[SwissMade]

I know for certain in my mind that is not what I associate with the word "fat". Curves are what a woman should have, I mean curves are there to be navigated with your hands, to be touched.. I think the expression is of compliment and not to be taken negatively.

[MadeInAmerica]

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I don't think so at all. Think it means you got nice shape in all the right places.

[Thisnotthat]

That’s a fair and nice answer, thanks.

[steveguitar]

Curves don't mean fat, I don't know how that got misconstrued. If I look at a guitar and see how the body curves and dips and is shaped, it is not fat.

Every woman has hips that protrude outward, some more han others , that's fine. He is says he like the way you look

[steveguitar]

Thanks for MHO!

[Anonymous]

A woman can have curves and not be fat.

A man can't control what goes on in your head.. If he compliments your figure and you hear an insult, that's on you.

Would you prefer he said "You're bony, I always wanted to sleep with a skeleton ever since I got my dick trapped in a deck chair." ?

[DarkHumorRUs]

Curvy = hip-waist ratio, possible addition of boobs that are bigger than normal for your size, possible addition of wider/bubblier ass.

[oceanGuy]

No he's saying you're amazing and curves are what we like? Derp derp. You say I love your Rock hard biceps do you mean we are fat? Nope!

[AleDeEurope]

Only fat women mean "fat" when they say "curves". Men refer to "curves" when they say "curves".

[Prof_Don]

That means that he likes your body and how it is shaped! Stop thinking so much into it and enjoy the compliment. :)

[sedrftvgyhujik]

He's saying your fat where he likes it.
Is that really such a bad thing?

[Asker]

Yes lol. Who wants to be considered fat?

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Fats probably actually the wrong word it's more that your big where he likes it!
Fat some what implies not firm (the negative part of being fat) and he didn't imply that.

A big chest or having a big bubble but are positives for most guys.

He is basicly using a more polite and socially acceptable way to say he thinks you have a great arse and tits.

[Asker]

I get it. The problem is there's no specific he. I just hear this from guys all the time. I'm not fat but it makes me question myself lol

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Well it's probly going to help you find a he and you can be proud of your curves.

[Yanoa_Yanza]

If he says curves, you're not fat to him, but not skinny. But not being skinny doesn't mean that you're fat

[FrenchyRomain]

ok so we say we like curves you take it as "you're fat"... we say we like skinny chicks and we're mysognistic and chauvinist pigs... CHOOSE !

[Toad-1]

exactly lol. there's like no in between anymore

[Guy_No1]

no it doesn't mean you are fat at all.
curvy is really womanly and feminine, curvy means you have the most beautiful figure.

[dolemite68]

no way he loves your booty, hips and boobs, it doesn't mean you're fat

[Toad-1]

Of course you'd interpret it like that *rolls eyes*

[Anonymous]

Well, I guess that depends. How tall are you, how much do you weigh and what are your bust/waist/hip measurements?

[Anonymous]

You must have a nice shape if all of these guys are getting excited about you

[Opinion Owner]

Would you sit on his face if he begged you

[Zendrya]

no... not all curvy women are fat

[Knkutz]

FAT DOES NOT EQUAL CURVY!!!

[Ali55sven]

No it means he loves the shape of you.

[lucian_lucian_123]

Not at all, means he like you a lot

[Anonymous]

no he means he likes your ass and boobs

[Thisnotthat]

GIRL!!! I freaking hate this. Yes.