You know that movie "He's Just Not That Into You?" We've all been there and it sucks, but try not to take it to heart. It's possible that he just doesn't feel that special connection with you for whatever reason.
It could also be that... He knows you have a crush on him, and feels like he has you to fall back on. Some guys (players, in particular) like "the chase," so this guy might feel like you're too "easy" (not in the sexual sense, obviously, but in the dating sense), and finds it fun to seek out new girls. I really don't know- this is just speculation.
Or, and maybe more likely, sex may be his main focus at this time. He may not want anything super serious. Even though he has dated girls and currently likes someone, he may just want to have fun with sex being his main goal. The other girls he has dated may have put out more of a sex-vibe.
My advice is to move on since feelings clearly aren't mutual. I mean he literally likes someone else. Try not to dwell on it and move on. Keep busy, better yourself (everyone can self-improve- getting better sleep, exercising, etc.), and try to stay positive! Meet other guys. And hey, this may even spark an interest from him in the future. :P
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he doesn't want to risk the friendship incase things don't work out
Well, you all have grown up and didn't have any feeling for him anymore... He only want to use you... Sexually exploit. Taken advantage of you. Bad girl.
I would suggest its time for both of you to move on and find somebody new elsewhere.
You are interested to him romantically not sexually?
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tl;dr. Answer to the question: Cuz he's a dude.
Maybe he thinks ur sexy
Not every guy in the world wants a relationship
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