Even though it was just a one time thing and he swears he won't do it again, I'm still paranoid sometimes. When I gave him the choice to call it quits or work things out, he was a mess, crying and begging me to stay with him because I'm so good to him and he loves me so much.
He does love me, and I love him. We've been together for a few years, and were friends long before then. He doesn't have a history for cheating except this one time, and I really think if he wanted to be with someone else he'd just break up with me rather than cheating again.
I know it's been 5 months, and even though things between us are getting better, every once in a while I feel unsure and get nervous. I haven't seen any signs to be worried about like last time, and everything seems to be going smoothly.
I know I have every reason to be mad and dump him, but we promised that we would work through it because after 3 years it's not worth throwing our relationship away over a stupid, selfish, horny move. He knows what he did wrong and knows I'll dump his ass if he does anything like that again.
He doesn't know I still get nervous and don't 100% trust him. How can I work on building trust again? He's been doing everything right, and is being so good to me, but I still can't get 100% of the way there...
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