Girls can definetely be players. I was sort of a pimptress when I started dating. But the guys liked me, while I was with one guy I always told him I'm see 4-5 other guys. The thing I did though was I always let them know that I'm just getting to know them and I'm seeing other guys. I NEVER actually had sex with any of them, ONLY cuddling while at MY place. I never did it at their place. This is because I started dating at 22, and I needed to screen out the bad ones... and the closer I got to them the better I was to screen them out. I dated like 20 men in 2 years, some 3-5 at a time and cuddling/sleeping (no sex) with 2-5 at a time (I mean one at a time, but during the same month... I would have a guy one night and then another guy the next night). They all knew I was also cuddling with other guys or talking with other guys. I did this until I met the one who was what I was looking for. Then I dropped every guy I was sort of seeing/cuddling with and told them I had a boyfriend (by age 24 now). And then shortly after (about 3 months later, we got engaged and are now married -he is the only guy I ever had sex with ... saving sex for marriage ya). but good luck. I mean... be a player... and don't be a slut. =)
Just because you hang out with different guys doesn't necessarily make you a player unless you're playing games with these guys and hooking up with like several guys at the same time. And girls can absolutely be players too. And no it doesn't make her a slut but it all depends on what people consider a slut. Different people have different views on what makes someone a slut, but I personally wouldn't call a girl that's a player a slut.
If you are just hanging out with guys on a friendship basis, no, you should not be called "slut". However, if you are kissing or making out with them, well that will bring you grief. Considering what you just went through, you really might want to limit the potential for grief right now.
Girls can definitely be players. You may be referred to as a slut mainly because of how society views promiscuous individuals. I read this little statement somewhere once, "If a key fits a-lot of locks, it's called a master key. If a lock fits a-lot of keys it's called a sh*tty lock." I laughed about it at the time but it kinda sums up how society sees these types of individuals. Do what makes you happy. Be safe. Be comfortable. Be classy. GL.
Hey who cares what people think of you. Your own life is worth more... Be the best social girl around and besides you have more choice...dates...friends... connections to jobs so on. Player wins all (socially)
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If you are dating and trying to figure out what you like in guys that's all it is, only way to find out, if you are just dating guys for the heck of it and not really looking for a relationship but just hook ups with lots of guys at the same time then you would be a player or a slut if you prefer that word
if you play him then your a player, if he plays himself (like a lot of girls do) if any thing he's the player. a slut is a girl that has sex with tons of dudes, so if you hooked up with all of them then yes.
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