Should I keep pursuing a shy guy? When do guys get creeped out?

guys always claim girls cannot be creepers, but I'm in constant fear of looking like a creep! I really like this shy guy but he rarely initiates anything! it's so annoying. I feel like I'm flirty and I've texted him at random just to say wassup. he's always responsive, but then he'll just stop texting me. it kinda worries me, especially if I think we're flirting.

at any rate, I don't want to keep texting him randomly or flirting with him (very lightly, not aggressive. smiles, eye contact, simple touches here and there) because he's not asking me out. I don't want to look desperate or creepy if I text him out of the blue again. he never texts me just to say hey, so idk...

so should I keep pursuing a shy guy or will I look creepy? what does a female have to do to be a creeper?

Most Helpful Girl

  • I admire you =') I would never initiate anything with a guy or text first..

    • don't! I have no idea what I'm doing! ha ha I've NEVER initiated anything before this guy lol

    • he must be pretty special then! xD

    • yeah, he's super sweet and tall and BRILLIANT. definitely makes me think, which is awesome :)