My boyfriend says we need to talk I have something to tell you . what's going to happen?

[Anonymous]

I'm getting anxious I don't know if I should be calm or worried. I asked him is it good or bad and he said both . Then I asked him to please tell me he said he's not 100% sure he wants to tell me in person. Then I told him please tell me now so then we can talk about it and then he said well talk later. He refuses to tell me now what is going to happen? What does this mean ? What is he trying to tell me ? Usually I have a gut feeling when somethings wrong but I can't tell ATM :(

[burningquest]

I'm so non-confrontational! I'd be a basketcase too! Has anything weird happened lately? Has his mood changed? Has he done a lot more for you lately? I know it sounds difficult right now but TRY to stay positive. For all you know, he's going to tell you he loves you and thinks it's bad that you might reject him but good because he's happy to tell you. I have a tendency to overanalyze things to death and freak out when in the end it was nothing to worry about! Good luck and definitely keep us posted!

[Asker]

We had a fight and then we had a longggg talk about everything. Then he wasn't talking to me much the day after :( so I told him what's up and he said I have to tell you something .

[burningquest]

hmmm...what was the topic of the fight? Another girl? Not spending time together? It might have to do with it.

[Asker]

He thought I was degrading him because I lost my temper at him because I couldn't see him . We are in a long distance relationship so every chance I get to spend time with him is importand to me . And then my friend got involved and told him to treat me better so he then lost his temper and just got all to much. Then he told me when he says he dosnt want me he dosnt mean it he just says it because he angry and we sorted thing out . Atleast I thought we did.

[HeavenlyEbonyBeauty]

As nerve wrecking as it may be, looks like you'll just have to wait and see what happens.

[kooky]

He is probably pregnant. But in all seriousness you know better than us.

[IamThisGuy]

ugh you totally beat me to it!

[Asker]

What?Why would he be pregnant?

[manbear]

wait, what?...

[kooky]

If a girl used that same "It is good and bad" line and wouldn't tell me except in person I would assume she is pregnant. It is a joke, obviously he isn't pregnant.