So he has a job and is now battling being a single father. Don't give him a hard time about it if he isn't up your butt texting you at all hours. He has work and probably doesn't wanna come on too strong. Once a day is good enough in many mens minds. Regarding the threeway. If YOUR girl friend mentioned it, and I was on a date with you...and YOU had brought her along on our date...Id assume you were wanting a threeway too. and...fact is...there isn't a man alive that doesn't have that fantasy...that doesn't make him a pervert...that means you two sent out major wrong signals...A. Don't bring along your girl friends on a date...thats just freakin weird. You ever see a GUY bring another GUY along on a date with his girlfriend? LOL! Let alone one who has no social filter enough to not mention sexual promiscuity like a threeway? Id say relax a bit...relax...a lot...quit keeping such close tabs on exactly when he does and doesn't text and just chill, because it makes you appear needy or controlling. reeeelax. If he wants to be around you he will make the time. that DOESNT mean his every lunch and free moment are YOURS though.
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If he's into you he'll make it happen, it does sound like he's interested.
Be patient. 3 days isn't the same as 3 weeks.
Stay open, stay fun, and be responsive when he finally find free time over these holidays to see you again!
I hope this works out for ya,
~ Robby
There are many ways you can attack this problem . First of all , it seems like he is interest , I mean if he wasn't he would have bailed on you the first time and never texted you back the next day and the day before. As you said earlier , maybe he does have a child or children that keep him busy or not able to come through the meetings. You can call him and ask for an explanation and if says he is busy with work , maybe he actually is. Maybe you can offer taking lunch to his office or something. This will prove a couple points;whether he is actually truthful and will give him a chance to admire your kind offer. There is no better way than being honest and telling him that you're confused . In a diplomatic way though ! Best of luck ! No worries , he sounds interested :)
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Didn't read. But men can make a woman think he likes her especially if he his drunk. Not to mention most women are morons and unaware of the fact that men almost always like two girls at the same time in case one tries to hurt him he loves the other one more.
The guy is into 3 ways and swinging like many guys you meet on cyberdating sites. Drop him, this is just the tip of a big ugly iceberg...probably why he's divorced!
The reason he cancels and does't contactt is because he's, no dout, corresponding in a similar vein with many other women on dating sites.
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