When in doubt, don't.
there is nothing anyone on here will say that will make you feel anything but a temporary moment of bliss. It's your body and your mind, and if you ask me (which you technically are) you should make this type of decision after you have talked to professionals.
I'm dating a 26 year old virgin, I don't care. It's not like he flaunted "HI IM A VIRGIN" when we first date, or when we first met, or even when we first fooled around. Hell, my ex LIED and said he wasn't a virgin and then accidentally told me later on that I was his first and it wasn't a big deal.
You're the only one who cares about your virginity. You're using it as a crutch and treating it like a freaking terminal illness.
But it is YOUR body. You do whatever you want with it. But this isn't something you can change or make up for, not to mention the amount of pain and financial burden you will put your family and friends in. it sometimes costs thousands to bury someone and deal with all of their debts.
Professionals you could turn to:
A therapist
A psychologist
a dating coach
a physician
a doctor
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of course you shouldn't but I'm notgonna give you a list of reasons why you shouldn't cause you'd prob just think that I cannot imagine how painful your life is for you and how difficut it can be to keep some hope and positive attitude.
i don't know anyone with that syndrom, still some of my relatives have gone, and are still going into a very rough and dressive path.
so if you feel like it, you can IM me or friend me so that you have someone to talk to (at least virtually). I was quite introverted myself, but I fought my natural tendancy to stay quiet.
anyway itsup to you ! but id really like to help you, maybe it will also help me getting better the people I care about and that I hardly have been able to help so far.
I don't understand why you lost hope so early. Sure you got rejected over and over but you're still so very young! It's better to get rejected at first and accepted eventually, than to be accepted immediately. Rejection makes you stronger, (well at least it should) and humbler in a sense. Those that rejected you immediately aren't worth your time anyway so why mourn over those people. Look for ones that would accept you for who you are. They might be hard to find but you eventually will even if it may not seem like it. But you're young. You've got time.
It's not something to be proud of, but I'm almost in the same position as you minus the suicidal thoughts and a job. And I just turned 29. 24 is really not that bad. I haven't been diagnosed with Asperger's, but I certainly have the signs. I should PM you shortly.
I feel the same way at times, not just being single but having no social life in general. Good luck.
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If you keep dwelling on what's WRONG in your life, your showing people that you let the bad stuff rule your life. Think positively, and people will look at you and think " maybe she is a good friend (or girlfriend) if she is THAT positive in life". Also, for your 'run out of things to say' problem, you should join a club or some activity and that could be your main talk about topic, and you could gain some more friends! If there is nothing you really want to join, create your own activity! See what other people like the same things as you!
Try new things! Before you start thinking about suicide ever again!i have thought about suicide before too but watching this scene from this movie makes me not want to give up:
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=_Z5OookwOoYIf you are seriously considering suicide then you need to speak with a psychologist or a priest/pastor. The majority of people on this site are in their 20s and 30s and are not trained to give professional advice on such a serious topic (although I fear some will attempt to do so). You may also call your local hospital and they can direct your call to a clinical hot line. Good luck.
My friends rarely calls or text me, I mean like once every three months, so their probably more like associates. But I don't let that bring me down. I focus my attention elsewhere, school, religion, my hobbies. And their is no law that says you have to have a girlfriend at an early age. I thought not having a girlfriend at 15 was weird, when I was that age, then when I was 18 and then 20, but it's just society. Now their are even 12 year olds that have 20 girlfriends before their 16, but we know those are just meaning less relationships. That's not how it should be either. You don't have to follow the way society is, many things are already messed up in it anyway. The clear way of how things should be are not just right their in front you have decide for yourself what's right or wrong.
I didn't have a girlfriend or get sex till I was 21, it's not that bad. Their are many other things to focus on in life, many other things to live for. And I talk to almost no one most of the time, I have like 2 friends that I hang with very rarely. Their are a lot of people like that. You just have to be patient I mean your only 23, you have a lot of time ahead of you to find a girl. Try moving your attention to other things.
No, no one should ever take their on life sweetie. Don't give up on yourself besides you are still young. don't give up.
So... How would killing yourself solve all those girlfriend/sex/friends issues, exactly?
Start an Asperger's Syndrome support group. Then you may meet a chick that has that in common with you and you two will understand each other then get to the hot lovely relations...
If you wanna kill yourself, at least do it with honor. Join the Army and save someone's life with your own.
No I was in your exact position a few years ago. Things will turn out fine hang in there don't worry.
I dont know how old this post is but here goes what do you enjoy doing? Whats your favourite music etc? I have what you have and i know excatly what your going through i hate public places where there's lots of people it gets pretty intense for me..
Grow up, that is one of the most pathetic reasons to commit suicide I have heard if you really were going to do it you wouldn't be asking about it on this bloody site. Stop trying to make friends in the wrong places and go get some mental help,
Youre too young to die. You haven't experienced nothing! Wait a couple years...
no, of course you shouldn't commit suicide
that's not all life's about, and also you'll find plently of people that will like you because there are in fact plently of people like you- depressed or not
but you shouldn't end your life.ImmortalMatt.
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