I'm shy too and I get red all the time. It's kinda annoying really, especially when people are like, "wow you're all red!" Thanks for that, I didn't notice my face was burning.
Blushing is a natural bodily reaction caused by a rush of blood to the face. Why does this happen? Since you're shy it's most likely because you're embarrassed about something, in this case girls. It's natural but you can overcome it if you try. You just have to calm down a little, maybe take a few breaths and relax around girls. Believe me, it can be pretty tough. Being shy is not always fun, especially when you like the girl but you're too embarrassed to even start a conversation with her. Just relax, be yourself, and have a good time. They will enjoy your company if you do.
In response to Naash, it doesn't always from being around someone you deeply like. It's just a natural reaction that we have. We feel embarrassed around girls so we blush.
For me, I don't know why I blush. There was this one time when I was speaking to a girl, while I was speaking to her, somehow I felt heat and blood rushing to my cheeks.
It's involuntary, so don't worry.
awww hun its nothing to worry about,try not to think about it,im shy and blush quite a lot always have,its hard to get over being shy,join a club doing something you enjoy make some friends and gain some confidence,think positive,dont worry about what the girl you like thinks,we find it quite sweet actually my boyfriend is 41 and still blushes sometimes when he says something nice to me or vice versa and I love it,and try not to avoid situations where you will meet people and maybe blush or feel shy because the more you put yourself out there the easier it will get,tell yourself you can do it if you feel a blush coming on when you are talking ignore it or make a joke of it,like I'm having a personal summer here!,you will be fine good luck :0)
I know how you feel, its like an automatic thing. It has to do with being nervous or embarrassed. You can't do much for the blushing, for me it got better. I used to get beat red speaking in front of people but with time and experience I don't get red anymore. I have become more confident. You need to look at it as she's probly thinking the same thing you are, she may want to talk to you but is too shy. Also know that if you get turned down its not the end of the world, she's 1 out of all the people you can meet. So good luck, don't stress too much or over think the situation. Just take a few deep breaths and go for it. Confidence is key, your confidence will radiate off of you once you have it. : )
I do that too. Whenever I'm around a guy I like I always blush and it kind of gives it away that I like him. I have learned to semi-control it. You just have to talk yourself through it. Take some deep breaths and start talking to someone you are friendly with who is around you. Also, girls sometimes find it cute when guys blush around them. Its kind of a compliment. Sometimes you can't control it and when it happens you just have to relax yourself and breathe deeply so the redness will fade. I know there are also medications that are supposed to help severe blushing problems that you can get from the dermetologist. Look it up on google.
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You face turns red because you are embarrassed... no big deal try to keep yourself cool and I literally mean cool, have a fan on or wear cool clothes so you don't get too hot. One way to get over your shyness is to put yourself in group things more often... go to a club go to the bar... or whereever you please where there is a lot of different people in a crowd... and set goals for yourself... tell yourself... "i am going to smile at 3 girls tonight" then the next time tell yourself "i am going to say hi to 3 girls tonight" do it step by step... eventually as you work on it if you actually keep your goals you will be more and more comfortable with it.
i think when boys or men face turn red is really really cute!
i hardly seen Guys faces turn red. but don't be shy until you don't there talk to them or acting cold to cover it. because it not cool at all. try smiling when ur face turn red. or laught or talk to them normally even ur face is still red that find
Try to play scenarios in your head of you talking to girls, then when the time comes it will feel more natural.
Of course, in these scenarios, make sure you only do things that you would do in real life, otherwise you won't know how to react when the time comes.
Okay, I didn't know that men blush too.
Its an involuntary reaction to being with someone who you deeply like and want to be with. Its beyond your control.
Maybe after sometime you'll get out of this awkwardness.
Enjoy being with the girl than worrying about cheek-reddening !
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