Why do men do this???

[vmajj92]

Guy 1: would make signs of interest for a whole year and not approach me. He would stare all the time, work out near me and walk by me all the time (even if there was a shorter way to get to his spot). He did all the stuff for about a year and never did or said anything. I never gave him any signs back. So if he knew I wasn't interested why would he keep showing interest? Is it JUST sex thing? Or he sees me as relationship material? What goes through his mind? Can a guy tell what kind of girl she is? (body language, eyes,walk,etc)

Also I never made signs because I thought he was too hot for me. Why would he ever be interested? He kind of reminded me of cam

Gigandet

No, I did not go to the gym in some slut outfit. Sweats and a tshirt and no makeup

Guy 2: he was my friend for about 3 years. Never seen him as more, loved his personality, but wasn't attracted to him. He was my go to guy for all the guy advice. He would always give me advice. Also he Would always ask me out, but I always denied. I finally agreed to give him a chance and then he changed his mind. He said I only see you as a friend/sister. But then later said he was always joking around. The thing is he wid always talk about me to my best friend. When they hooked up, he kept asking about me. What kind of guys I liked, and just everything about me. Why did he change his mind when I gave him a chance?

Why do guys always act interested (they truly are interested), but never make the actual moves?

If a guy meets a girl, and she is a "wife type" (cute, nice, sweet, all around good girl) would a guy ever let her go because he thinks she deserves better or maybe doesn't feel like she's good enough. Do any guys have "the one that slipped away"

I been told a lot of guys look at me and smile, but I rarely notice it...

Not many guys have approached me

It's usually strangers(older men and woman) customers, friends or family that tell me that I'm beautiful. I don't see it though

Also after I deny a guy they pretend like they never tried getting with me, when it's clear they did. What's up with that?

[archer86]

For one thing, a man in this country has to be fearful for sexual harassment. All it takes is for someone to cry wolf and the man is pretty much screwed forever. Secondly, maybe he's too old for you? I have all sorts of thoughts about debauchery with the college girls I stand next to everyday, doesn't mean I'm going to try and do something with them. Bad. Bad. Idea. The eye candy makes discipline about leaving women alone very difficult even though the poisonous strike of feminism is very real(in addition to the fact that I personally need to act my age).

Nothing stops a woman from coming on to a man however, this is highly encouraged. It would mean it's green light and she's OK with it.

[FlaggLives]

The first guy sounds like he was just shy. He tried to hang around in your general area often hoping that you might start a conversation with him.

The second guy sounds like the opportunity just passed and time wasn't right. Like for example if it was me and I had asked you out a few times and you have denied me a few times, I would lose interest and not be as excited about dating you when you finally relent. The idea that you didn't want to go out the first time I asked would cement the fact that you're not all that crazy about the prospect anyways.

[Anonymous]

Well guy one doesn't mean its just a sex thing, he's just not confident. It seems like he finds you attractive, he may just be shy and lack confidence so he doesn't approach you. If you talk to him it seems that is the only way you'll find out. I'm shy and not really confident and at my gym I sometimes do the same thing to girls I find attractive and interesting. I can tell you this, me personally am not looking for sex, I'm looking for a relationship I'm just really shy and fearful of approaching girls I like, speacially at the gym. I can say this though, I'm not like most guys in my generation and am a religious person, sex to me is serious and should only happen with someone I love and I'm willing to wait for that. Can't say guy one is like that, since he is not me but if you talk to him, you may be able to find out his intention's and just friend him to see what he's like, if your not shy yourself that is.

[posted]

Some guys just act flirty, It's not very common but a few are flirty with everyone which is why it's good advice to see how they act with other girls. Some guys aren't going to blatantly ask out a girl for fear of rejection, friends can ruin friendships with it if they are denied the other person will sometimes freak out.

[bDizzie]

Guy 1, you never gave any clues that you wanted him to approach. Saying he was too hot for you is an excuse. Guy 2, I dunno. The rest of the questions at the end, I don't know either because that's not me. I would kill to meet a "wife type" girl.

[giantpotato]

Maybe guy1 mistakenly thought you look like a nice girl who would be a relationship type.
Maybe guy2 is trying to play hard to get.

[Zodiac988]

Most men are fearful when it comes to approaching women. Guy #1 needs more confidence.

[Anonymous]

You are surprised that after a year a guy would give up? You also want guys on gag to read a guys mind that we cannot even meet. You think too much and have no confidence.