Am I overthinking this? Does he like me or did he use me?

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So i've liked this guy for a few months now, we get on really well and when we talk we have lots in common.

On Friday night i was out at the club i always go to and he was there, he kept hanging around me, dancing with me and we ended up cuddling and kissing, he told me the only reason he went out tonight to that club was because he saw i was going.

The next day we arranged to see eachother and we spent the day watching films, cuddling and kissing. Towards the end of the night we ended up having sex.. He asked me to stay over but I decided to go home, when i was leaving he said he would like to hang out with me again but he's busy this week since he has a test for the RAF this weekend, but after that we will sort something.

I spoke to him afterwards since he told me to let him know i'm home safe and i said it was all a bit unexpected tonight and he said i know i didn't expect it either tbh, i said is it bad that it happened? and he said no i had a really good night :) i said good and he didn't reply..

I felt a bit let down that he hadn't tried talking since with my ex's it was always a back and forth conversation, so i asked him yesterday if this was just sex or not and he said no that he does want to see me again and is just busy with revising but we'll sort something out soon. We haven't talked since then.

Do you think he actually does like me and want to see me? Or is it just a case of he's had me and now can't be bothered?
Am I overthinking this? Does he like me or did he use me?
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