Guys, if you find women who suffer from anxiety/depression a turn off, what in particular turns you off?

[Cobaltemerald]

Like is it how they may often talk about depressing things or maybe sone other thing that is irritating and a turn off?

[Anonymous]

Inventing things to be worried about. Won't try new things out of fear. Going through life finding reasons to see one's self as a victim. Blaming their problems on something that happened years or decades ago and making no effort to fix it. Being blamed for said problems. Communication consisting of being vented at, for hours on end, then moaning about "being defensive" whenever you stick up for yourself. Having to pretend nothing's wrong after the wave passes, so as not to trigger it again.

Who honestly wants to meet someone for lunch every day just to hear them bitch about their job for a solid hour? When they won't even try to find something else because they're convinced they won't get a better job because of ageism and because they never finished college because they stayed home to raise you? Yet despite having time and money now, they won't consider going back to school, either?

Speaking of bitching... yeah. The main lesson I learned growing up was "go along to get along."

[akadatank44]

The only time its a turnoff is when she constantly brings it up. Like this one girl I went on a couple of dates would cry herself to sleep everynight about how she had to work a lot and not spend much time with her baby (1 and a half not a newborn) She didn't even work full shifts and had two jobs but like one job was an hour a night. Then I would say well maybe you should go and talk to someone about this and she said no it will go away. Like ok your life is a little rough but people have it far worse but try and get help. I am more attracted to strong women that I will say. Its ok have a bad day and complain and cry if need be that I can deal with and be there for but when its constant its almost has if the kid cried wolf and she's just doing it for attention and won't get help

[Theshaft169]

Just stay far away from the bi polar girls !! They are nutts ! Cheating liers. Feed off of dramma. Omg depressed is nothing. Just makes guys wanna try to put smile on there girl if she's depressed.
I know how to get a girl to smile 😜

[Anonymous]

It mostly depends on how it causes her to treat me. If she is worried about losing me it might prompt her to put in more work into our relationship. Or she may flip out and accuse me of cheating, being insensitive, lying about really being attracted to her, or any other number of accusations that would put a strain on our relationship. In the past my biggest problems were with women accusing me of things, because they thought I was judging, or disrespecting them when I am not.

[dakraziest]

most of the times its her refusal to try and fix it

[hotstuffSRD]

Not a turn off for me instead I'll make her feel alive n she'll feel best n enjoy everything about her life

[Anonymous]

no, sluts, bitches and goldiggers turn me off. well if yu are way too depressed its hard though..

[Cobaltemerald]

What do you mean by hard?

[Opinion Owner]

to cope with you. this condition can be too devasting for you and your loved ones in extreme break outs...