How can I make myself hot?

[Singingbaby1987]

I want to be super hot for my boyfriend. What should I change to make that happen. I'm working on weight loss, but what else?

[anysound]

read read read! think about it for a second, if you only focus on looks then the only thing you are teaching yourself is how to rely on a man to take care of you. if you read lots of books then you will be self relient in the event of a break up and it will make you not feel as bad about it and therefore it is easier to get a new boyfriend when you aren't mopping around. maybe ALOT of guys are too dumb to understand the importance of REAL education(school doesn't count cause our youth are dumber than they were before the first computers were invented 100 years ago). also by teaching yourself everyhing it lessens the effects of low self esteem(dont ask me for the details but I swear it works) . like if you learn psychology you can learn about your own and others'(including mens)minds whihc helps ALOT in getting you places in life. also books on body language make it much easier to find a mate. I recomend this one highly link and then you can teach yourself economics and politics so that you can make more money in life. overall, reading is the BEST way to be successful(why do you think the smartest men are self taught?) and I know for me at least finding a woman who is successful or who has a high potential for being successful in all or mots aspects of life is the GREATEST factor in if I would want to be with you or not. maybe not all men but the successful ones I almost guarentee it,

[Singingbaby1987]

Thanks. I have a degree in music performance with an English minor, but I had lost sight in my studies. I do need to my education first, and you're right. This will make it easier if we were to break up. Thanks for your insight.

[ashleybaby]

Your awesome. Your a joy to read. very mature.

[rasa_aesthetic]

The first computer was invented in 1910?

[Sky-High]

Well before I read your question I noticed your smile, so I'd definitely say to use it. Being 'hot' also involves you being happy -- and I mean really happy. Not being someone for the sake of keeping someone else happy -- so don't loose sight of that, as I have seen that catchup with some of my female friends when they try too hard to make a relationship work (not that I'm suggesting you are, I'm just cautioning). Hair is also a big turn on -- getting it done or using year GHD is a big plus. It does depend on the amount of maintenance required, but if you can do it often it does wonders! Though my advise centrers on what I said earlier, on not trying to please year partner too much

[Anonymous]

well girlie your not ugly at all so all you have to do is be confident ((know your sexy)) and maybe change your style? more heels, do your hair...long and sexy...straight, curly or wavy, me personally I like the bridget bardot look..alluring eye makeup ((smokey eye nude lip but not caked on, in a soft way))

dress sexier. instead of going for cute & conservative, sex it up, show more legs or cleavage. wear sexy lingerie under your clothes you will feel hot

dance naked in front of the mirror to sexy music that's 1 trick that makes me feel sexy

[MidnightPoison]

Don't only focus on the physical part.

The hottest part of a girl is her attractive personality.

Make him feel manly and good about himself.

Always be dressed nicely so that he feels proud of having you as a girlfriend.

Do not wear to much make up. It makes you seem like you're trying to hide something.

Be yourself. Someone with an authentic, fresh personality is great.

[brown_eyes]

If he doesn't respect and love the way you naturally are then he's not worth it. Trying to change yourself for someone else never works.. They never see the REAL you. They can never truly love you if they don't see the real you. They'll be in love with the image of you.

[wrali]

You need to sound out wht he likes. Each guy is different, I'm afraid.

For me:

Look soft and feminine (use ribbons, wear soft skirts and dresses... don't wear shoes ;)

Avoid makeup and artificial augmentation

Smile a lot

Show plenty, plenty of skin

Keep your body soft, rahter than exercising into steely hardness (yuck)

Dress and act like you're ready for sex, right now

Your guy will probably have a different perspective... you need to prise it out of him. I'd suggest making him feel comfortable with pointing out the girls he watches and why he watches them. That might be a knock to your confidence, but it'll do the trick :)

[Anonymous]

Weight loss helps because it makes grooming much easier. However you can do great grooming with needing to lose too much weight and still look great, however there is a point where weight lost is important, but those areusually obvious cases.

However to really get hot besides proper grooming what really makes a girl attractive to most guys and is so strong that it is very hard to not admit that we find ourselves attracted to her, it has to be her femenine vibe.

When I said femenine I don't mean delicate, I mean that I want to have sex right away expression in your face but at the same time holding a big sense of self worthness.

[markymark]

Well if wieght loss is needed then go for it. To finish the package show nice amounts of cleavage with a push up bra and wearing tight jeans with a matching thong always does the trick. You can't go wrong with small tight clothing that hugs the figure. hope this helps!

[asdg12]

So your suggesting that only girls that look somewhat slutty are hot? wow your way off base and don't know the first thing.

[BillDylan]

I seem to be the weirdo that talks about behaviours all the time, so I won't change that.

I love a girl whose always smiling at me, a special just for me smile, its always reassuring. And guys hear this all the time but confidence is really a great attribute in a woman too.

[Rachel_SK]

You look great the way you are. Also, I don't know how your boyfriend is, but when I used a new flat iron on my hair to style it differently, he really liked it. He asked what I did differently or if I got a haircut. LOL So chaning up your hairstyle can do a lot sometimes.

Other than that, keep doing what you are doing!

Rachel

[no_Need_For_Name]

-How about a new hair do?

-Play around with make up on your spare time. I would have never known that I looked better with eye liner only on my bottom eyelid than eye liner all around my eye, if I hadn't been play around with makeup lol. Just don't over do the makeup

-I wouldn't suggest anything about your style, unless you want to change it up yourself, because the guy became your boyfriend being satisfied with how he saw you.

[officialgrl19]

Be you...if he's dating you he must like you for some reason...

Weight loss is a good way to start and also for you that's a plus, health wise...

Mayb go shopping get cute clothes to spice things up, a new look as in mani pedi or get ur hair done...The key is.. if wht you do and how you do it, to make a good change, makes you feel better... itll make others be wowd..

[xhelloxkittyx]

Are you kidding me? He should love you for who you are, not who you'll go under the knife to be. You can make yourself look like Pam Anderson, but when you're 80 years old with a chest that hangs to the ground, the only thing left will be your personality.

[MadHatterni]

I disagree with your best answer. Confidence says a lot but if your a b*tch then you will be lower than low. To get a better work out and lovely toned legs and butt. Wear 5-10 pound weights on your ankles for 2 straight weeks and you'll notice some toneness and you will feel hell of a lot lighter lol. You can find tips like those in any book or mag. Be different and not a sheep. (one in the crowd)

[abra_b]

Moisturizer! It may not matter much now, but getting in the habit will have great long term benefits.

[Anonymous]

teeth whitening, your teeth already look pretty white, but if your interested use baking soda(brush with it) and hydrogen peroxide rinse with it don't shallow.

a little tan, not too much then you don't want to look orange and gross be careful because tanning is addictive.

try Carmen Electra's striptease work out videos they are fun

[pghcrew]

buy a sexy outfit. go tanning if he likes tan girls, don't tan if he likes fair skin, lol. I don't know if I were him you'd already be where you need to be.

[Cartiphilus]

You do not need to do anything at all. Stop trying to lose weight. You're NOT fat. Now, at 22, you look young and VERY sweet. As you get older you will naturally become hot. However, do NOT every buzz frizz curl your hair like that ever again!

[Singingbaby1987]

Buzz frizz curl? Who are you and why would I take advise from someone who does not even know what the proper term is for that hair style? It's called "scrunching." Maybe if you'd learn a little more about women, you wouldn't have to stalk people on GAG as much.

[Cartiphilus]

It was only a suggestion that you don't look better with that hair style. Pardon me for being a guy who doesn't spend time in hair salons. I don't have any need to stalk you or anyone else on GAG. You're very hostile. Guys will pick up on that and walk away from you.

[cjwright79]

True hotness is found at the cellular level. There's not much you need to do. You subconscious takes care of you, tells you what to eat, when to sleep, all that jazz.

[moviedude714]

if you have a boyfriend already than that means you are already hot.

[dsmith09]

Hahaa sooo true

[reesee]

You look like a pretty girl. Make sure the weight loss is for you, and not someone else. I don't think you need to change your looks. Just buy some lingerie and call it a day.

[cadbury]

Feel comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is sexy. If you're insecure, that will come through no matter what you do to change yourself. Imagine feeling not good enough for a year, or five years, or ten. Keep up the good grooming, of course, but work on your mindset first, the rest will follow.

And I agree with the other commenters who said you are already beautiful. Good luck.

[johnny_hustle]

you look sexy as it is right now, maybe go to a salon if you want your hair to appeal to him as well but damn girl...

[bigdanny]

hi

seriously you don't have to do anything , you are gorgeous,maybe treat him to some sexy lingerie for later stockings etc, but you are sexy the way you are

dan x

[nickt86]

Put on like a million clothes get some blankets and turn the heater on...that should get you really hot.