How to keep girlfriend and I from growing distant from each other when were both busy?

[moraff12]

My girlfriend are going to be very busy the next few months with school sports and school. How can I keep us close?

[Phoenix52]

Invest your time into her by calling her every night, or every 2 nights. If you want to see her, call her up and say "I'm coming over, I want to see you for a bit" and do it.

Spur of the moment = yes, catching her off guard = yes, surprised = yes she will be

But she'll love you more for it. It shows you're devoted to her, and want her. But don't spend too much time with her, because of course you have your own life to manage.

[Kanat]

Make time to spend with one another, like a schedule and alternate--one week y'all do this, the next do that. It's going to feel a little 'not spontaneous' or what have you but during that time, it's your's to have. :)