Should I take what I can get?

[Anonymous]

first of all, I am 19 years old and for the first time in my life, there is a girl that likes me. She has a nice personality, but she is kind of weird and I am not physically attracted to her. I feel pretty desperate at this age. Should I just take what I can get? I think that not many girls become attracted to me because I am really tall and skinny (6' 3" 130 lbs yet I have the body of a cross-country runner) and I do not smile a lot. I am generally good looking, so I am not sure what the problem is. Is it because I am intimidating/scary to girls, or do girls not like really skinny guys? I'm not a very funny guy, unfortunately (my jokes are corny). I would just like to figure out what is wrong with me and change it.

[UnicornLoveChild]

I'm not sure what's "wrong with you" but you shouldn't try to change yourself for others. Do you talk to a lot of girls? because shy guys often don't have girlfriends. Simply because they're too nervous to get close to a girl. I know the guy I like isn't close to many girls, and believe me, I like him a lot, but it's really hard to get him to notice me. if you want to stop being that really tall skinny guy then bulk up, eat some food! but change because you want to, not because others want you to. As for this girl, maybe ya wanna give her a chance, people say I'm weird, but when they get to know me they like me.

hope this helps,

Lindsey

[wally]

you're fine I'm 5'9 135 lbs and I don't have any problem with it , theirs no weird people its just because you don't know her that much you think she's weird try to talk to her more .