How come I never get asked out?

[Anonymous]

I've been told I'm pretty, I'm average (not fat or skinny), tall about five feet seven

I don't know why I have this issue, its not a good feeling:(

[diabloknk]

All sorts of possible reasons:

1. People who tell you you are pretty might be just being nice. Post a picture, people on here would be far more impartial than your family and friends.

2. You might be unapproachable. Maybe you always have a frown. Maybe you act cold with every guy who talks to you, and thus they never ask you out.

3. You've got a bad reputation. That's not easy to fix, short of moving somewhere else and starting fresh. Best you can do in that situation is wait it out.

4. Maybe you do not stand out in any significant way. Basically, you're invisible.

[Asker]

well some of my friends say when they first met me they thought I was intimidating. I don't know why. I'm not that shy, but maybe around guys I am. I act sort of mean around guys I like, so they can't tell I like them...I try to hide the fact that I'm turning red.

[diabloknk]

Well, there you go. You act mean and intimidating, so therefore guys don't ask you out. Guys don't ask girls out if they think the girls just going to reject them anyway.

[Josht]

You need to advertise yourself, guys aren't really gona notice you and the ones that do will thing you have already been bought. You need to smile at guys and they way you smile is really important too it's gotta be like hey my vagina's open tonight kinda smile

[eve16]

You are probably intimidating to a lot of guys. They see you and think "damn!" but are afraid to approach because of rejection/humiliation/etc.

[kmhco]

I have the same problem. I attribute it to my shyness.

[bigheadteam]

Well, some guys are scared of approaching pretty girls when they are young.

I'm sure that when your agegroup moves up, you'll be asked out more often.

[AllDay]

you hang around the wrong type of guys?

some guys only hit on the girls who have their cleavage popping out and short shorts

[SnackG]

It just happens to some people. The guys that like you are probably too shy or something. Try asking guys out.

[moviedude714]

guys probably assume you are taken already, and for me, rejection is not a big deal, it's getting labeled a creeper or stalker that I hate the most

[Anonymous]

Maybe they don't like your personality.