My gf is non-white but I don't want mixed race children?

[Anonymous]

If you were non-white and your bf was white, would you be OK if he asked you to use a white woman's egg and then be a surrogate, so that the kid comes out pure white? She is Asian and says she prefered white men, so she would have a problem with having a half-asian son, right?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

If I did want children, that is a no. We can get a surrogate but we're going to use my eggs, bc I want my children to look like moi. Would my eggs not be good enough for him? What's the point of us being together till the thought of us both wanting children? If he's so concerned about his children being "pure Caucasian" if that's even a real thing. Than we should break up and he should go find a Caucasian woman to have his kids with. That's pretty insulting. He wouldn't want me to say oh I don't want your sperm. I don't think it's great quality. I'll go to the sperm bank and find myself a suitable melinated man's sperm to create my baby.

No she wouldn't be okay with it bc she doesn't look at her son as a partner. Not unless she has that mentality that she wished she were caucasian. Then she wants her kids to be as caucasian looking as possible bc she'll think they'll be accepted by Caucasians and get their factious privileges they've created for themselves. If they don't look very Caucasian then she might have resentment towards her children. It's a messed up way to think but it does happen to a lot of people of other ethnicities.

[menina]

No, I WOULDN'T be okay at all. If he didn't want to have mixed race children, it would mean that:
1- he's secretly a racist,
2- he doesn't accept me as I am
3- he would be ashamed of having a mixed race child.
So, how could I be okay with all of this prejudice? It makes no sense to me.
I would be helping a racist.

Just because she's Asian and she prefers white men it doesn't mean that she would have a problem in having a half-asian son. She's Asian, so any child she will have will be Asian as well.
If she had a problem with it that would mean that she hates her origin. And that's self-hate.

[Anonymous]

lmao there's no way in hell I would be okay with that.

And no, your sexual preference doesn't mean you have a problem with having children who are "partly" the same race. Ugh, I hope you're trolling. But tbh its partly her fault for dating someone like this. You can't always tell, but usually I find the best guys for me definitely don't have these feelings, at all.

[Asker]

But isn't it basically saying that someone like your son wouldn't be up to snuff to your own dating standards?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have an interest in dating my children, so I don't understand the connection. It would probably depend on the reasons/feelings behind lack of attraction to same race. I'm usually not attracted to men of my own race, but I see nothing inferior or ugly about people of my race in general, and my love for my future children will never have anything to do with that.

[aamy811]

I would dump you. If your seriously that shallow then I wouldn't want to be with you. That's saying you don accept me and fine something so wrong or shameful about me that you don't want to have a baby with me. And I don't want to be with somone whose ashamed of me

[Asker]

I'm not ashamed at all. She's gorgeous. But being non-white is a disadvantage, esp. for boys.

[aamy811]

That's it, seriously. Being mixed is not the worst thing in the world. Who the hell cares. If that's the only reason then you would have Ben able to overlook it. But in the back if your mind something is so wrong about bing asain that you just can't haven't happen to you offspring

[Asker]

I didn't really think about it until after all the conversations I had with her about her white preference. Seems like she hates Asians.

[aamy811]

That's different though. She just happens to find White guys cute. she wouldn't be ashamed or upset by a non white baby, sh jut finds white guys attractive

[Asker]

But it's like basically saying someone like my son is not good enough for me to date, but someone else can have him.

[aamy811]

There's a difference between preference an absolute. Preference means something you pefer but your still fine with something else. I prefer blue moon but bud light is still pretty damn good
But having an absolute is saying you won't bush no matter what. So basically she refuses to date guys of other races besides white. So I like blue moon and won't drink anything else because it's beneath me.
That absolutes and preferences are too different things

[Asker]

She specifically says she would never date an Asian man. She said they're like a 3rd gender.

[aamy811]

Then wow your both just bad.

[bde0001]

um. if i was her i would be pissed off! like real pissed. i can understand you wanting white children if you perfer. but if you do truly love her, than you would want your son or daughter to be half of her. even say you wanted your children to have a genetic predisposal to great athletisim. would you want to use an athletes egg instead of ur wifes? i personally would want my child half of me and the one i love. and i would try my best to make him the best he can be.

[RationalMale]

For one, I completely sympathize. If I ever have kids, I don't want them to be mixed race. Not to mention, Asian guys have it pretty rough in dating in the USA, from what I understand.

For two, why in the hell would you even ask your gf that? I mean, seriously? The kid wouldn't even be hers, really. That's just a huge insult to ask her that. If it's an issue for you, and you want kids, break up with her and find someone else.

[SakuraChii]

No I would leave the guy, I don't see how the child would look extremly different since your wife is Asian. Most asian/white children look more white. But either way you should love your kids regardless of their apperance. Want full white kids? then go marry in your race and stop leading people on, I can't see why she would want someone else's egg.

[freyanna1017]

Why would the guy care if the children didn't come out pure white. If he wanted white babies he would've gotten himself a white woman. He is with an Asian woman because he loves her and no matter what race his children will be he should accept it and love them as well. Because it makes me feel like he doesn't want his children to have Asian physiques or traits.

[CHARismatic110]

So she's good enough to have sex with, but not to reproduce with? Like why are you even with her if you don't want mixed children. Go be with someone who you feel comfortable impregnating.

[menina]

Your first sentence represents what I thought when I read the question.

[CHARismatic110]

@menina it's crazy.

[menina]

Yes, it is absolutely. I think he's trolling.

[freyanna1017]

AMEN

[Anonymous]

Da fuck, Why?
here's some pretty hot Asian and white mix people they're HOT...

https://media.salon.com/2014/05/elliot_rodger5.jpg

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[R3d_Anonymous]

Damn that chick is hot. I want to bang her so hard.

[bde0001]

yeah i agree, seems white-asian mix females usually seem very attractive to me as well.

[Watermelonoma]

i lol'd. elliot roger was the best you could find? hahaha

[GreenTiger]

Elliot Roger is gross as fuck but the girl I'd bang.

[MeganLoves]

The guy is The murderer Elliott Rodgers and that girl is Hispanic White

[Opinion Owner]

No the girls actually Asian and white mix, i have some friends that look hotter than her, and ik elliot rodger is a murderer but he's pretty hot. No offence but Meganloves u sound jealous.

[RationalMale]

I gotta love that here's a girl proving what guys say... girls are attracted to killers and murderers. It's like how the Boston Bomber basically has a female fan club, online.

If a guy is brash enough to flat out murder people, it conveys how tough/brash/alpha he is, and women will get turned on.

It's like the cliche of women "falling in love" with convicted criminals.

[ChaosKilledTheDinos]

Pretty damn shallow. That would be so insulting to hear if you asked her to use a surrogate. She's going to feel unloved and like you view something wrong with her race (also apart of her identity). I mean ouch. You're an ass.

[Anonymous]

No I'd not be okay with that. Shows you have a problem with me, then forget you if you can't accept difference. She's not gonna be okay with so just don't bother having a kid with because why should you raise a kid with her if it's not from her womb. Hell no. If you want a white kid, break up with her and find yourself a white girl if something like that bothers you. Sounds pretty selfish to me but your life, your problem. But just think about how much it'll affect your girl rather than you.

[Yeatts]

:/

Why does it matter if your kid is 100% white or not?

I would be offended I would feel like my SO was ashamed of my race. If you have an issue about race then just date your own race, you racist prick.

[Anonymous]

Do her the favor and move on. You sound ridiculous. Asian/white babies are beautiful. They'll probably have a higher IQ just being mixed with Asian.

[R3d_Anonymous]

lolol

[Strider90]

if you don't want race mixed children then why you started dating her in the first place? Stick to your own race.

[nert73]

That is racist and stupid and inconsiderate and just plain rude.

[Mesonfielde]

... uhhh, you probably should tell her that you're racist, so she can find another partner

[Mustachekitteh]

What is the difference? Her skin is white as well. Just her eyes look different.

[Anonymous]

So genetics has proven that you inbreed to fix traits, you cross out to improve upon what you have. Its called hybrid vigor. Your offspring will likely be better off for it

[bde0001]

hmmmm. interesting. i have heard of hybrid vigor in dogs and plants.

[Opinion Owner]

Genetics is genetics where all made of dna

[Jersey1]

There are over a billion white people in the world, I think they are safe from interbreeding, lol. African-Americans however have a much smaller population than white in the US (13%vs 70%) but even they are fine given the tens of millions here. Pffft, interbreeding, maybe you are a product of it given the logic you showed here, lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Wrong, anything of a pure race/breed is interbreed from the standpoint of the features they carry are isolated to the population. You assume because the only inbreeding you have heard of is with close family members that's the true definition. Line breeding is still interbreeding just not as close together.
Do some research on the subject before making foolish statements.
Most African Americans have multiple white ancestors back in the family tree.

[BarbaraP]

No, it's a ridiculous request.
Asian/mixed Asian kids are gorgeous anyway.

[KDA20]

Hope you get the response you were trolling sorry I mean looking for.

[Kountry_King]

You don't need to be with her then if you can't get past the race and you only want "white" kids

[DaddyRollingStone]

Stop dating non-white girls, dumbass. What did you think was going to happen?

There is no way in hell she'll be ok with that.

[ObviouslyBored]

If I want his name I want his babies. Damn the color of them idgaf.

[Anonymous]

I would just find a white girl and be done with it.

[Anonymous]

I really hope you're a troll. That's pretty pathetic.