He seems like he has an inferiority complex. None the less, if he is jealous, then he should argue with you... ask you who the other person is. But to lock you in the room, that's going too far. then next thing you know, you'll be deprived of food and not allowed to talk to anyone or even phsyical abuse. I would just let go of this guy, he seems mental.
Tbh, my ex was very possessive and jealous too, but he would never go to this extent. He trusted me. Even if he didn't trust the guy, and that alone made me want to make him feel at ease and I myself wouldn't meet with those guys alone. Just to make him at ease.
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This is just my opinion coming from the sliver or story provided: he's a controlling manipulative boyfriend and you justify his wrong doings (the anger and punishment) by saying on the other hand he is really kind, loving, and amazing. That's what people like that do. They treat you like crap and give you just enough "kind, loving, amazing" to stay. My recommendation: get out. It only gets worse.
You need to escape this marriage. Check to see if there are any women's shelters in your area. He may not be beating you now but that doesn't mean he won't in the near future. This will only escalate. You deserve better. This website will help you come up with a plan of action. Don't be afraid to call the number they provide.
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No it's not! 😮😮😮 You should talk to him about it 😐😐 you're his wife not a child to punish you 😕😕😕
You answered your own question. he's insecure. If there is an age gap he will have an inferiority complex compared to guys your own age. Men need their confidence boosted too. Men brood and react in anger when they get hurt emotionally. Why not stop thinking he's there to support you and make you feel good and actively try and make him feel good
He's immature, a big kid copying what his dad did to him: control and punishment.
He knows he's doing it wrong and it makes him insecure , thus jealous.
But does he have the brains to adjust his behavior? I'm not sure about that.
Draw your conclusions.
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Reading the comments, you BETTER GET THE F* OUT of this relationship!! What is wrong with you to let a guy lock you in a room for hours? If you decide to stay and it gets worse, you have no reason to complain!
Does it matter why he's acting that way? Whatever it is, it doesn't excuse his behavior. Besides, it's likely just the way he is. And you really shouldn't stand for it, unless you like living in constant fear.
It only gets worse. It will turn from mental/verbal abuse to physical abuse after some time. Not a healthy relationship to pursue although it's very hard to get away from. Personal experience
I never understand why women like you put up with this shit and think its love and bla bla bla like fucking dump him clearly this isn't healthy.
Go to couples counseling. All I can really say do you guys communicate often?
this is a huge red flag for me. this is how a domestic violent relationship starts. if he ever threatens you or hits you leave and don't go back
One reason I don't trust guys! Also tell him to get lost and that you fuck that guy! If he mad so what? Your just gonna let him hit you. Weak ass man!
What are you doing to get him mad? What exactly do you mean by punishment?
Maybe he has been cheated on before and she crushed his heart?
Girl you need to get out fast. If you don't it's only gonna get worse over time. Locks you in a room for hours? Silent treatment? There's no reason to stay with him. He's not going to be 100% happy until you're isolated from everyone compeletly. Since you can't move back in with your parents, do you have a friend, sibling, or a relative you can move in with?
tell him if you do something wrong he needs to punish you in the bedroom, say i'm sorry sir maybe you should spank me so I learn my lesson
The younger you are at marriage, the more likely you are to cheat, or fall for someone else
Sounds like a dysfunctional relationship.
how does he punish you?
how does he punish you?
Not exactly the ideal marriage
No it's not normal
Define "punished"..
Physical punishment?
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