Spontaneous or calculating - Which are you?

[Aizou]

Do you find that your words leave your mouth before your brain finishes the thought, or do you go through everything before ever uttering a word?

Consequently, do you refer to yourself as intro, or extroveted?
And how would "you" define what these terms signify?

[YourFutureEx]

When I'm angre, words certainly leave my mouth before my brain. But I'm very good at moulding my words and making perfect sense and taking a good protected defensive side.

I'm good with the debates. I know that almost every single sentence, except the obvious "yes" & "no".

I'm 100% Introverted. I don't speak much in the first place, let alone getting angry.

You mean, define "introversion"?
It is the state of seeking gratification from one's own interests, thoughts, and feelings. We spend time alone for rejuvenation. It's like an important part of our life. It's not like we all are shy or sociopathic. We can be awesome leaders, friends and companions. We have a clear advantage of analysing the situation before taking an action. A good thing is that we love solitary activities which extroverts don't and we have to take part in social activities. Extroverts often get bored with silence and loneliness but we see this as a strength. There's also a downside, extroverts easily seek happiness but we struggle with that. It doesn't mean that we are sad, but we are neutral with most of the things. If we are ecstatic with the presence of someone, he/she must be super special.

[Aizou]

Beautifully put. That's exactly how I see it. :)

It feels like many people nowadays associate introversion with being shy, and extroverted with being outgoing, which I don't feel is entirely correct. In short, it's just whether we reenergize inwards or outwards. :)

[YourFutureEx]

Oops! There are a few mistakes and incomplete paragraphs.

Angry*

I'm good with the debates. I know that almost every single sentence, except the obvious "yes" & "no" *are ambiguous. It's how you interpret it. So, I can easily divert my arguments*

A good thing is that we love solitary activities which extroverts don't and we have to take part in social activities, *so we are often 'jack-of-all-trades', we are compelled to put more effort.*
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Sorry for the mistakes, I was drunk :3
Yeah. Isn't it a good thing that people misconstrue things about us?
Thank you very much ^_^

[YourFutureEx]

Thanks :)

[Redstang88]

A bit of both. I'll send a lot of time thinking things through, but when I actually get to doing/saying things, it ends up being totally random and spontaneous.

[Cccgala]

I'm a calculating person. However, I tend to have information processed rapidly (as a human). I only speak up when moments are deemed appropriate, and I always am eager to seize opportunities in speaking up so it might pass as spontaneity.

I am definitely extroverted since I cannot deal with a day without being in the company of people whom I trust-- these friends are numerous. We extroverts make the world go round with our dynamic encounters and our effortless initiations. We may seem loud and obnoxious (I'm not going to lie, but some of us are) but that's how others perceive us without knowing our intentions inside.

We're stereotyped to be more confident than the introverts but I don't think that's factual because everyone is definitely confident about something and because confidence means lacking insecurity. Some extroverts do have insecurities they hide, hence disproving the stereotype.

[Cccgala]

Thanks for MHO!

[Pipi769]

I'm right in the middle, actually. Not too introverted, not too extroverted. If I am with an introvert I'm usually serious & quiet, and with extroverts I'm more outgoing. Also, I get caught up in the moment sometimes so I might say something without thinking. But not always.

[Shanaya_10969]

I'm spontaneous most of the time. 65% introverted. To me, being introverted means being lost in your own thoughts. Enjoying your own company more than anybody else's. Doesn't mean you gotta be a loner or antisocial. Just being a deep person as a whole.

[Aizou]

Then we think alike. :)

[Shanaya_10969]

Is it? That's cool!

[DarklordOdin]

As a whole, I am extremely calculating. But in speech, I think of the general message I wish to convey, and I allow my speech to flow. It works well for me.
I am definitely introverted on the spectrum given.

[Phoenix98]

Depends on my mood and whether I honestly give a rats ass about the other person or what they think.

But most of the time I think, well always thinking, not so much calculating but deeply thinking.

[luvstoned4him]

I give much thought before words leave my mouth. So if you got a dirty word from me that was premeditated.

[HoneyButterCup525]

I was a calculating person cause I always worried about every little thing but now that I have changed I'm looser and more chilled so I became kind of spontaneous you know and oh I am extrovert

[Pomegranate139]

Calculating, unless I'm being a smartass, then it's spontaneous 🌈 ✨💥💫

[Pomegranate139]

I am introverted. And that smiley was supposed to be a shooting star

[Prof_Don]

Calculating, although I am more spontaneous than I used to be in my younger days.

But still more calculated overall, I say 60/40 ratio.

[BaileyExists]

Calculating. But I often wish I were more spontaneous because I feel like I miss out on things because I don't take chances.

[qwert1234]

I'm usually calculating. I really am trying to avoid being offensive to anybody, but there are times that I just blurt words out. lol

[megkell]

spontaneous and an extrovert. it gets me in trouble haha

[alice55]

Spontaneous, I talk without thinking generally. Can lead to awkward situation

[ChanRin]

more of spontaneous, i often regret stuff I say. and 60% extroverted 🙃

[JadeTea]

50:50 if not 60:40, or 10:90. lol I'm hated because of it though.

[JadeTea]

I'm introverted. I don't really trust easily most of the time and I get lost in my thoughts sometimes.

[realperson02]

i am a calculative person. was an introvert till 14-15. since then i am an ambivert.

[COCOCHANEL]

calculating/worrying yet disorganized
i wish i could be more spontaneous

[ElissaDido]

Definitely spontaneous !

[Nyx_85]

I'm spontaneously calculating.

[Nadzzz]

I normally think more than I speak

[AlexanderMTW]

Both and introverted.

[Decentguy]

im a complete introvert. Im INFP

[archiz]

75% calculating