How do you get a girlfriend when you don't drink or do drugs?

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I have never meet a girl that wasn't a drunk or a drug addict. Even at church and the gym all the single girls are bar flies. I really don't want to be around girls that have those kinds of problems. It's a big let down and turn off when you have to deal with a drunk or druggie all the time.

I'm not sure where to go meet girls that aren't that way. If you go hiking those girls are usually drunks. If you go to a book store or a library they act like you are pestering them or they tell you something like they didn't come here to be picked up by guys. Online dating is a joke. The girls never respond to you. Most of the profiles are old and it's already unfair to the guys because the ratio if men to women is greatly off with there being a lot more men than women. I can't think of anyplace to go where girls are sober.

needaglassawata · Accepted Answer

are you interested in finding women who completely abstain from drugs and alcohol or women who consume responsibly because there's a huge difference. the former is pretty rare but the latter category can usually be identified through responsibility. look for women who take on a lot of responsibilities in their life and handle them appropriately. responsible women aren't all grouped into a specific location like the library or church, all logistic groups have their dirty secrets, but there are definitely women who aren't alcoholic drug addicts out there haha.

redheadbabygirl · Accepted Answer

Ummm, I have never tasted alcohol or done drugs or smoked or any of that stuff. Plus I'm a virgin.

Prudish? no. I just love my life too much to mess it up. I'm sure there are other girls out there who are the same way. You just need to keep looking.

What?! More men than women on dating sites? It seems the opposite from what I've heard?

amaya · Accepted Answer

Try ballroom dancing. Girls love to dance and don't tell me guys can't dance ( take some lessons or ask someone to teach you). Two of my best guys friends are exceptional dancers (christophe likes to show off and dance with two at once). Plus the odds will be in your favor and ask a girl sitting down to dance. Why wouldn't she say yes?

jen-82 · Accepted Answer

I don't drink, use drugs, or smoke. There are girls out there like that, you just have to keep looking. You'll find one.

Reeses-pieces777 · Accepted Answer

if yo don't do drugs or drink, it's good. I would rather be with a guy who doesn't abuse himself

oldmaninthemoon · Accepted Answer

i hear ya bro lol I live in eastern Ky  and it sucks big time. the only girls that come by just want pills or drink or anything to get high. I don't want a woman like that nor do I need one

Hughman · Accepted Answer

Become a Mormon. Problem solved. Really, every girl you know is a drunk or druggie? I know plenty of girls that don't drink excessively.

ivarei · Answer

i think it's a tremendous sign of maturity for a guy not to do drugs or drink.  it's a plus in my book :)

quinnfitz1121 · Answer

go to a dog park. take a yoga class. take a ballroom dance class. id so go to AA but that's like fishing in a dirty pond.

Anonymous · Answer

You need to get out of you current environment, or look for different girls.  That's all I can say.  They are out there, you just need to look in different places.

BrandiLove · Answer

i smoke, drink all that bad stuff. but I'm not depend on that type of thing, I'm a bookworm a writer. Mainly a guy that doesn't do that type of thing is attractive, very much so.

Anonymous · Answer

You don't drug or smoke. Girls would feel privileged to have you. Guys like you are rare to find.

AnnaRoxie · Answer

I feel the exact same way, just about guys.

-StillWater- · Answer

OMG WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE DO YOU HANG OUT WITH?!?

How do you get a girlfriend when you don't drink or do drugs?

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