When I'm flirting or being funny around a girl she usually laughs and calls me silly/funny/crazy or even cute
What does it mean? what's the best reply to it?
I usually reply smt like:
"Only around you girl"
"Yeah and I'm sexy too ;)"
Any other ideas?
Step one: Thank her (not jokingly but not super serious either). Show her you can take a compliment well by keeping it light & casual.
Step two: Compliment her back and be sincere.
If your goal is to ask for her number or at least have her develop an interest in you (someone you see regularly and know you're going to run into again) this might be a good opportunity to change it up with a bit of honesty. If you've noticed something positive about her (other than her looks!) like that she seems bold, dresses sharp, etc. its a good time to switch gears and tell her that.
She's complimenting you and its time for you to compliment her back. But it has to be sincere - if its joking or silly she can think you aren't interested or able to be serious about her (or anything else). And if your compliment is something about her looks (eyes, hair, smile, you name it) you risk coming off as superficial - if she's cute she hears those compliments all the time from guys who aren't funny and aren't interested in who she is but are just trying to feed her a cheap line to try to score with her.
Something like "and you're confident," or "you have a strong sense of style," or even "you seem to have a good sense of humor" has the best chance of surprising a girl and impressing her (if its honest - something you've observed about her while talking to her). Cause now you've shown you aren't just funny (fun) but can be sincere (honest, real) too, and you've done it in a way that it confident, direct and bold.
Step Three: Tell her you'd like to see her again sometime and ask for her number. If you're not comfortable doing this right away, you can ask her a question or two about herself. You can tease her a bit about her responses too if its playful but not too much cause you want her to realize you're interested in her, you don't want it to come off like you're making fun of her.
If the chemistry is right there's a good chance she'll give you her number because she already likes you or she wouldn't have complimented you. Don't worry about trying to find out if she's got a boyfriend before you ask for her number cause if she does she'll tell you when you ask her out.
Anyway, this is the approach that works best for me. Good luck to you.
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All of these are not exactly the same.
"You're silly!" "Yeah, well, looks aren't everything!" "uh... thanks... I think."
You're crazy! "Shhhh. Don't tell anyone!" (I usually growl and bark) "Act casual."
"You're cute!" "I know it, baby!" / "You're not so bad yourself." / "You have good taste!"
we girls (at least me) don't really like cocky guys :p so that won't work anymore
try this:
smile (not laughing) and look her in the eye and say: well thank you
or if you are capable do this: smile and look away (like blushin )
and say: don't say those things.
that is something that any girl would die to see.
Plus if when the girl tells you, you answer right back: you are beautiful too.
they will think that actually you are ust saying because you are just being kind
and is not really true
Pleaae do not say that anymore. That's brutal. Say no you or no way! That's you or I try somethinf modest but flirty not something cocky but cheesy
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"funny/silly/crazy/cute enough for you to agree to a first date wth me?"
I like to lift girls up in bridal position and just carry them around all over the place. It's kind of a last resort but if they think I'm crazy I might as well play the part. It usually works. They seem to dig it even though they might pretend to kick their legs and protest a bit. Of course, you don't like carry them into your bedroom. You have to balance this out with some sane shit. But you know, like you pick them up and tell all your friends you got a new date and take her to a nearby restaurant.
"fuck you, you stupid whore"
is what I would say, personallyI know ;) it's better
say "wait till you see my dick"
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