Here's the long and short of it:
I like au natural. But not all women are the same, soooooo...
Excessive: You probably don't like it either and feel self-conscious. Fix it so you feel comfortable, it's low-maintenance and looks/feels natural.
Waxed-bare pretty-boy: Step away from the mirror, get over yourself and get a new hobby that actually interests other people and isn't all about your looks.
If you are trimming or shaving this or that because it makes you feel more comfortable with yourself, you're a swimmer or bodybuilder or whatever, that's fine, but don't get obsessive about it or become more high-maintenance than the women you want to attract or keep.
Hair in places that men grow hair: You're a man, it's OK, we like it. Don't worry. Spend the time and money on something your female interest might care more about.
However... if you are with a partner and she has asked you to trim this or that back, it's not unreasonable of her to ask... just do it as long as it is within reason... and as long as she's willing to reciprocate when you voice your own preferences within reason.
The exceptions: Hair visibly growing out of your nostrils or ears: Ewwww! Unacceptable! Fix that! And don't feel like you're entitled to ask her to reciprocate by expecting her to wax her p*ssy bare, especially if she actually had to ask you to fix that! If she has something equally gross (gigantic hairy mole between the eyes or worse), you may gently suggest it would appeal to you more if she would fix it as well, and to help her to do so.
I hate hair, it doesn't turn me on. But I can handle hair in the places it's supposed to be on a guy, because it's supposed to be there and it looks good.
I only dislike a LOT of hair. For example, beards that travel down the neck and connect to a carpet of chest hair? That connects to a carpet of back hair, and butt hair? Not cool. If I wanted to date a gorilla, I'd go to the zoo.
i want a guy to have at least some hair.. otherwise he doesn't look like a man. I don't want to have sex with a little boy. Just keep it trimmed.
im not turned on with like back/shoulder hair.. or ass hair. haha.. but I expect a guy to have armpit /leg hair...
trim the pubes though please.
I got hair nearly every where except my back and I don't shave it because its not a whole lot of hair and shaving it would mean it would come back in thicker. Plus wouldn't it be weird walking in on a guy and seeing him shaving his chest or other body part lol.
I'm not joking when I say this but I'm 25 and I have very little hair on my body I don't shave I have leg hair but I'm blond so you can't relay notice it I have a small amount of armpit hair and pubic hare my little brother has much more hair than me WAY.
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Personally I'm not hugely bothered. I absolutely love snail trails, but then I don't miss them when they're not there either. Chest hair/armpit hair/pubes - don't really care, as long as there's not loads. I think the one thing that I do find kinda weird is back hair. A smooth back is always good to run your nails across lol
Chest hair can be sexy as long as there isn't too much of it and you look like a gorilla. Armpit hair again, keep it trimmed, I don't really want it going up my nose when we're cuddling in bed. Oooh and the jacobs ladder from your tummy downwards, very sexy...But yeah on the whole hair on blokes is gooooood, I don't want my guy looking like a mannequin. I like a real man.
I like the happy trail hair and pubes. Armpit hair is not bad it doesn't bother me. What really gets me is when it looks like the guy is more of a monkey than human. the thing about it is that I don't like seeing a lot or hair everywhere. That's gross.
i odnt like airy armpits, or pubes, at all on my guy. and also he likes to keep himself clean he shaves it also. a lot of people say girls like hairy guys and that its sexy. not all girls are the same. well it grosses me out when their is hair down their. but that little hair below the bellybutton is ok. and arm hair its ok
Love a little bit of chest hair. Legs and arms not too bushy, no long and curly stuff. Snail trail that leads to the pubic area is a super turn on. Hairy backs are just plain gross. Armpit hair is fine, but would like the pubic area to be slightly groomed if too bushy. Don't want to get a mouth full of hair.
I'm not gonna lie, I think hair butts are cute. I just giggle at the thought of it! arms and legs hair is alright.
A little in the pubic area is okay. but you must remember that hair traps in smells, so wash often if you have lots, or just take it all off just to be safe.
I think any body hair is gross. Armpit is fine because I don't see or touch it but otherwise I prefer clean. But I know most girls don't share my opinion.
i love hair on guys, stubbly beards and hairy chests. (snail trails are REALLY sexy too). don't get hung up about it if you think its unnattractive, turns out a lot of girls dig that. in my opionion, I think a guy looks so much more manly with a bit of hair.
well girls just have to shave everything!
so I would say if your hair is a little too much than please take the time to clean up a little. and don't shave your chest...wax it, trust me its not that bad and you'll get use to it.
but I do like a little scruff and happy trail.
mediterranean type of men are manly and I must admit its pretty sexy...just as long as they keep it clean that's all
Excessive body hair is a huge turn off for me. Pubic hair doesn't usually bother me, so long as it isn't a full jungle hiding the snake. Chest hair and especially back hair are gross.
i love hairy guys its just manly and sexy..the less attractive body hair on a man is hair on his back and shoulders I think that needs to be shaved..but I guess I can live with it..hair like on the ears and stuff like that I just can't stand
my ex was a hairball and I got used to it but my boyfriend now keeps everything trimmed and it is much sexier. The excess hair just gets sweaty and balled up and just king nasty. Don't have to go bear but keep it manicured please.
I am very turned off by hairy guys. I don't really care either way about armpit hair. I don't mind a little bit of chest hair as long as it's light and subtle. I prefer a man with shaved and/or trimmed pubic area.
What the heck are these girls talking about? These are MEN. I would never want to date a guy who waxed/shaved. THAT's nasty. If I like you, I'll take you how you are. Though I gotta say, I think the hair on my boyfriend is sexy :p
Wow, geeze. Women don't realize that men are naturally hairy. There's nothing we can do about it.
I like chest hair. When armpit hair is really long it's a turn off and guys should keep their pubic hair lol.
as long as its not too much on chest.! and down there it better not be any.
cuz if my boyfriend let it grow down there, he int getting a head from me that night.
lmfao ;P
Shaving your chest and stomach too often gives you razor burn and can make you break out. If you want a day or 2 it becomes itchy and makes your shirts stick to you. It's a pain in the ass to do all the time.
I really think it depends. I know a lot of girls that like their man to have lots of hair, no matter where it is. As for me, I prefer less. Armpit hair and pubic hair is acceptable. I think it is a bit girly if a guy has no armpit hair and hey, we all have down there hair. It really just depends on the girl. if you're a complete catch, then it really doesn't matter
if a guy has a lot it would be best if he trim the hair some guys think its gay to shave so trimming works best but if the guy foesnt have a lot of hair a guy doesntr need to worry babout any thing
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