That is true if a guy likes someone they will go after the person that they desirer.
That is true if a guy likes someone they will go after the person that they desirer.
true. but sometimes false...
True. There are exceptions because some people are shy/socially awkward. However, you WILL know when a guy likes you. There are no mind games. There are no, "what ifs." There are no underlying meanings to innocent comments that girls misconstrue as something else (btw, stop reading women's magazines. They're the most misleading pieces of garbage out there). He will be in touch. He will answer your texts. He will want to hang out. He won't be, "too busy," to get in touch. He won't wait 57483 days to get in touch after he says he'll call you. He won't play mind games and string you along.
If he really does like you, he already has a sense of respect for you and will treat you as such. If he wants you, then yes, he WILL make it happen. Some take longer than others, but it'll happen.
The games/tests are not just to be a dic* - its a way they have of making sure you like them & yes guys do it too.
Just keep talking and flirting with him until he gets the hint!
I think so! Unless, of course, you've made it clear to him that you're not interested...there's a certain point at which a man gives up. But yeah, if you've incouraged him with flirting, he'll get the message and go for it (for the most part). Hope this helps!
If you know he is not shy, then yes but if he is, then he is just too nervous too and may take longer to finally approach you.
that is so true. if a guy likes you a lot he will do anything to make it happen he may need time but it will happen and if he doesn't seem to interested don't even bother bcos he's not worth your time
Depends of how much shy he is. But boys are usually afraid of failure or rejection so they are sometimes not confident.
you should make this a poll
Not always true
really likes you can have different meanings. some guys just want sex and they're "really like you" but they might not, most often don't work hard enough for it
yes, but the real answer is eventually.. some guys are just too shy but when they mature they have all the confidence to go for what they want. a lot of guys that I don't like are all too persisent.
I think a guy can really like you but have insecurities or issues with himself that might hold him back from making a move. That's what makes things difficult... Just to cut out all the BS... go with the guy that doesn't make you confused whether he likes you or not. He actually shows it and makes an effort.
Not true... there's a lot of guys who are just too shy and some that will always think the girl is out of his league. Some guys are mortified of rejection and can't get themselves to try the way they really want to try.
In addition to that - sometimes no matter how hard a guy tries it's not going to happen because the girl isn't into it. lol. You can't MAKE something happen with someone. :) But I'm sure that's not what you meant, I guess I'm just feeling psychological lol.
For most cases it is true.
As far as I'm concerned, most guys go for the girl they really like.
But you can always ask yourself the magic question "Is he acting like he cares?" Don't tip toe around your feelings and admit the truth.
Because, If the guy is acting like he doesn't give a sh*t, he really doesn't give a sh*t. (it works other way around too).
FYI watch movie He Is Just Not That Into You, it might clear things out for you about the way guys mind works :D
Sure, as long as he has some good indications from you that you are actually interested in him. If you don't make eye contact, don't engage in conversation, don't return calls or texts and turn him down for dates (as in play-hard-to-get), he won't be able to make it happen.
I can say there seems to be some debate about guys who are "shy" and I am sure guys do get nervous, but if they really, really like you (not iffy or unsure) and you are showing them attention such as making eye contact and talking with them, they will figure a way out to work up the nerve to ask you out.
What if you constantly make eye contact and sit with them but do not talk
NOT TRUE. my boyfriend was shy and didn't ask me out at 1st. I thought I was giving him all the right signals and making it it OBVIOUS that I liked him. but... he didn't pick up on these signs and told me (once we got 2gether) that he didn't know if I liked him or not and he dint want to ask me and I reject him, because he's feel like an idiot and it'd b awkward between us. it took a lot of encouraging on my part 4 us 2 finally get 2gether!
True, otherwise he wouldn't waste the time.
TRUE...one way or another shy or not he will show you something!
Show something yes- make it happen, takes two to tango*
Most people are complete pussies, and will never make a move until it's 100% certain, because they're afraid of rejection. It really depends on the guy. If you really want him to make a move just make it more obvious that you like him and maybe he will.
Depends on the guy. As for me I'm usually way to anxious to go for it even if all the signs are there
I'd say not true. I say this because I've known guys, myself included, that have had very strong feelings for a girl but never got up the courage, got over the insecurities, been in a position, etc. to make it happen with the girl. So as much as people would like for the romantic "He'll find a way" to be true, in cases it doesn't happen.
If he really likes You and wants You enough. He'll have a dance off with Beyonce to make it happen lol. In all seriousness, if he truly wants U, he'll do whatever it takes to make it happen...just hope it doesn't involve no one dying lol.
a lot of times no, I've liked girls before and never made happen.
It's a two-way street. A guy will not beat himself up trying to get to you if you show no interest. Ladies have to play their part in concert with the guys.
Gabbie : If a girl really likes a guy she will make it happen. True or not......get it?
Yes of course. Except for the 101 reasons or obstacles or problems or misunderstandings or miscalculations or misinformation & or all around uncertainty that gets in the way.
Anyways. You should never rely on someone else to 'do' everything- its a bad habit & unhealthy & your friends will not like it in you. be a team payer* ;)
Totally agree with this answer. I would flirt and initiate things but if I didn't sense any interest on her part id just get over it. this is why girls shouldnt play TOO hard to get.
Everyone is different on this, I personally am somwhat afraid of rejection so I try to make sure that the girl likes me too before I make much of a move. So although most girls perfer to have the guy make the first move, its not that important, if you want him to know flirt with him or if he is a good enough freind just tell him how you feel.
Mainly just if she flirts alot, biggest idicator really
How do you make sure she likes you?
Ummm how what?
If the guy is aware of how to make it happen, he will. But sometimes, he might not. That's where you come in and influence him to do so.
not, some guys wouldn't know how to make to make it happen!..but it should be the guy to approach
The guy should approach- because he is not experienced ?
Cause they are not experienced on how to talk. listen.....experience..and guy should approach cause it would be easier to play a girl if she approaches
Not always true. Men are still human, and as humans they are prone to the same insecurities and fears of rejection as anyone else is. If they like you they will use the standard social cues to let you know over time. Starring at you across the room then looking away when you notice, things like that. You may need to be the one to approach them, or at least signal your own interest. If you like them, stare back some. Smile. Encourage the poor guy. :]
Staring is giving you a social clue?.....i thought it was just because they like u, not to let you know......lol I stare cause I like a guy -- I always hope he does not notice ha ha
some are shy like hell
they may better let it go and regret than making it happen.
why don't you ask him? ask him questions like:
-would you call yourself a shy guy? -have you asked a girl out before? etc etc.
and make it a fun convo too, cause those questions might bring back bad memories for him. so try to keep it light. and then this way you'll know what kinda guy he is when he's around someone he likes.
also at the end of the convo give him some productive criticism. This should make him feel a bit more confident with you and he might even ask you out.
False I am sometimes too shy to even say hi to a girl let alone ask her to hang out.
Mendocini ever thought of just coming out and telling him you like him? Maybe he thinks its your fault because one minute don't pay attention and the next you do. If you like a person, this goes for both genders, and are waiting for them to realize you like them. Take the initiative and ask him out, or at least ask him who does he like, and if he goes no one really, what about you, bam tell him then and there you like him. he might be like yeah I like you too, even though he said no one.
Oh yea. They do that. My shy work crush tries to give that Don't like you vibe out and it sometimes throws me off. But when I act cool and don't pay attention to him, he so paniced and then he shows lots of interest, but doesn't do anything further, cause I think he is not sure weather I like him. And it's kinda his fault, cause he is not consistent with his attitude towards me. I'm still hoping he will grow up lol. I think he is cute, even if he's shy though.
We don't normally do anything. I wait to know for sure she likes me.
If a guy is interested in you he will contact you, phone you, make a date, chat, email, etc
What actually happens, is not always that great !!
If the girl responds well to the guy (aka nice and flirty), then I suppose at least I could answer with yes.
I was into a girl once and she was living 125 Miles away, but I simply wanted for it to happen as she seemed quite into me, too. So I drove there pretty often, which was a financial ---------, and I hoped for her to develop feelings for me, too.
When you repond to him well, he'll do a lot thing to "make it happen". Depends on what you want out of it.
Most guys won't annoy a girl they like if she doesn't seem to like him..
you know what.. there's no "rule" or standards for any of this.. every situation is unique.. it really goes on a case by case scenario.. sometimes some guys are more outgoing and they really pursue a girl they really like.. sometimes a guy is more on the shy side and as much as they like a girl they may let it slide because theyre just not used to girls liking them back (be it that they're good looking or not.. )..
in this case you didn't really give us much info, so just ask yourself if he's social enough to be able to go after you or if he's shy ask yourself if u've given him enough signals/chances to let him know you like him..
there are guys who are really super shy, they wait until the girl make it!!!, what seems really weird, girls actually consider that sort of guys in not enough into her to the extent that "forces" him emotionally and physically to do, even if he is showing DEADLY signs of PURE interest and attraction !!!...and they don't let it happen until time is out :S:S
does it make sense ?!!
do your parents buy you a pony if you only really wish for it?
Lol great good job ! - da5id