Girls can be stupid, especially the younger they are. You should remember that the asshole didn't start out that way. At first he was an asshole to everyone but her, she was special. He protected her and she felt safe. It is not further in the relationship that he turns his true self on her, and when she is shocked, he says he is sorry and it won't happen again... but it does. It takes girls a couple assholes sometimes to see the signs. When a girl loves, she loves with all her heart, and it can be hard to shut that off. It's not like a light switch. Other girls are just idiots. They say nice guys finish last, and to an extent that is true... because the nice guy gets a great girl as soon as she is ready and he is the last one she ever loves.
When a girl falls in love with a guy, she has no idea really that he might not be as awesome as he seems at first. In the beginning of a relationship everything seems sweet and amazing --> she and he make great memories together. Then the problems come across them and they don't know how to deal with them, so they start having arguments. If the situation gets really bad and they can't find a way around disagreements, and they will be arguing for most of the time.
Even if the girl would want to break up, she still has those memories with him. She just hopes that she might have it all sweet again, which is why she won't leave the guy. Smartness doesn't necessarily overcome feelings.
because those guys are sick fucks and that their gf are too naive to realize it
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The guys who do this are generally attractive guys who can get any girl. They know that the girl will take the abuse and still come back. Its similar to the NFL problems of late. These guys treat women like dogs because they act like dogs. They keep coming back regardless. I am not saying this is all guys or all good looking guys but i see this a lot where girls will be with a guy somewhat 'out of their league' and will take all forms of abuse to stay with the guy. The guys become calloused to them. Its not fair. Its not right. Its just how it is.
Because those girls would date anything that moves and displays a semblance of "masculinity" but then act surprised they are abused. They are not exactly worth anyone's time, reasonable people wouldn't be attracted to that. The trick is that you need to actually like each other, otherwise jumping into a relationship doesn't make sense. That is why finding "a girlfriend" is hard, but your chances are much better if you are actually basing your interest on someone who is actually interested in you and vice versa.
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What you are suffering from is 'nice guy syndrome'. You feel like you are superior to the guys who have girlfriends and are bitter that you can't get a girlfriend yourself, even though you spend excessive time listening to girls complaining about their boyfriends (or listening to anything that suits your agenda).
Thus, you ignore all the happy couples out there, or even all the men who complain about their girlfriends, because this doesn't suit your agenda, whilst failing to realise that the guys that do have girlfriends are obviously offering something to these women that you can not or do not give them.
You also need to realise that complaining about a partner is the way some women/ men socially bond with others. They get together to moan and whinge, it doesn't necessarily mean their partner is some evil guy/ girl. I refuse to believe if you got into a relationship, you wouldn't give your girlfriend at least one thing to moan about and vice versa. Nobody's perfect.
Most girls (notice I say girls as we usually learn) like to think that they can change a 'bad boy' into a 'good guy'. I unfortunately fell into the trap of falling for a guy who everyone thought to be a bad influence. He was hardly the type to beat you or anything though. At the time i found it exciting and exhilarating. I think they generally cause a lot of emotion, even though it is usually negative which is a key factor. Also the thought that everyone else sees him as a tough guy and only you get to see his soft side. However that really didn't end well and you learn that nothing beats respect. I'm sure you will find someone soon as you are just the sort of guy that girls need when they've been hurt by these 'boys'
Because they are usually controlling in a relationship and a guy who controls (leads) in a relationship turns women on. So they fall in love with abusers because other men don't offer her this.
Steel Panther will explain this better than I could:
Reminds me of a song I heard the other day.
"Nice guys finish last, that's why I'll treat you like trash. It's not what I really want to do. But, you only date bad guys, so I'll give it my best try to treat you the way you want me to!"
you;ve never been in a relationship so you can't accurately judge someone elses
I wouldn't say shit just don't treat them better than anyone else. If u treat them like a princess they will treat u like a peasent
Because those types of guys Just see woman as play toys for their sexual fantasy's
Because all humans have baggage and we all eff up in relationships.
How you think you'll be in a relationship isn't ever how you actually are.
They are probably those little innocent naive girls, and think they can change the guy and make him love her forEVA.
The same reason girls treat guys like shit. There are equal numbers of assholes in this world in both genders.
because sadly girls view/see being treated like shit as a sign of dominance, most expect to be dominated by a guy sadly
Because they are mysoginists, that they also blame women for everything, as reflected in some answers on this page.
They are probably well endowed. That's why the girls stay with them.
I don't know but you look like James Franco.
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