Okay so I have a stepbrother whom I like and he also likes me. So I wanted to know how people feel about incest. Is it really considered incest. REMEMBER EVERYONE HAS THERE OWN OPINION!
Opinions on incest. How do you feel about incest?
As someone who was placed in circumstances where I had sexual relations with my cousin when I was 17, it may be fun to fantasize and they may be hot, but I regret it now a lot in retrospect. At the time I loved it, we had never met and I knew after them staying with us for tow months I would likely never see her again. turns out they stayed in town so now I see her Christmas and such and it is awkward, especially because it can always be reinitiated...
I wouldn't if I was you. Like I said, they may be hot and it was loads of fun at the time, but I regret it in retrospect...
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The only incest I have an issue with is between siblings (blood-related) or parent/child and even then, only really when reproduction is involved. Aside from reproduction I feel it's really none of my business.
That said, the rest of your family is likely to not be accepting of anything happening between you two. So while I think it's fine, it's also probably going to cause you both a lot of problems with the rest of the family.
I don't really want to answer the "good" OR "bad" answer. I think the question is too complex to just say it's good or bad.
It's nasty. Legally, he's your brother. His mother/father is married to your father/mother. Though it is legal in 21 states (not sure District of Columbia is a state) and illegal in 24 states, including the state I live in, legal with certain circumstances in 6 states. But hey, whatever floats your boat.
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Do you think it's worth risking a lot of drama in your family just so you can date your brother? Sounds like a VERY immature attitude to me. Stop thinking with your ovaries and take a cold shower. There are billions of people on this planet, is it really essential you try and get with your brother?
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You dont need to bother what other says as long as you 2 are ok with each other
My brother and i are active sexually and we love each other so much and we enjoy each other more than our boyfriend and girlfriend
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You are anon, which I understand, but that means I don't know in what country you live. I will assume that you are in the US. If that is wrong, let me know.
Based on my understanding of the law on this subject, step-sibling relationships are legal in every state except Virginia. That means there are no legal prohibitions against the relationship and no punishments or penalties if you are reported to law enforcement.
Biblical law does not mention step-sibling relationships as being prohibited, not do other widely known moral codes.
The prohibition against incest is partially founded on the increased incidence of genetic mutations and birth defects among the offspring of incestuous relationships. That consideration does not apply to step-sibling matings, as, genetically, you are not related to your stepsibling any more than you are to any other member of the general population. Children from such a mating would have the same low chance of birth defects that accompanies any mating.
Another basis for incest being prohibited is the potential for one partner coming from a position of authority over the other and misusing that position for personal advantage, or coercing you into a sexual relationship. That consideration usually applies when the two partners come from different generations, such as parent-child, uncle-niece, but it can appply to older sibling-younger sibling.
The biggest concern for a step-sibling relationship is the long term consequences. It is very likely that your parents will disapprove and you will keep the relationship secret for some time but you can't keep it secret forever. Additionally, you should ask yourself whether you want to marry your step-brother. If so, you may be ostracized by family and even some friends and it certainly won't make your life easier. If you don't envision marriage, then the relatinship eventually ends; perhaps it will be a mutual decision but it could be an unpleasant breakup. Now, you will be attending family events with yor step-brother present. Do you tell your new boyfriend that you had sex with your brother in the past? Or do you keep it a secret and hope that he never hears about it from someone else? How will you feel when step-brother shows up for Christmas dinner with his hot new girlfriend? Are you going to be okay attending his wedding to that cute little blonde?
You can dismiss these considerations now and proceed with whatever your libidinal desires want, but these problems WILL arise in the future. . . and it will be too late to undo what you have done.
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I think It's love, feeling and attraction and i think it's natural as long as it is consensual. I believe some families are not into it at all and that others are. If a person is attracted by his sister or brother let it follow the path and see where it leads. Most of the time it will be something that passes. In other cases if kids are introduced to sex at a very young age and have fun and pleasure it's perfect according to some confessions I did read. You guys are attracted to each other go for it and see where it goes. Just think about future repercussions because if you get together and then live through a messy break off for some reasons one of you could use the incest thing to hurt the other. Otherwise, I did have short incestual relationships with my cousins, a thing with my older sister when I was 9 and still wish my uncle would have taken me as his young lover when I was 12. My brother is 1 year older than me and I often dream we are having sex. To me there is nothing wrong with it. In fact I am getting very close to my 20yo nephew who seem very open. he always say he loves me. I think that if the occasion come where I can get sexually involved with him I will g
o for it. At least I will try to make it happen. I am BI, my grilfriend knows about it all and dosen't mind fortunately. Important to respect individuals and never impose sex to anybody but sex education I agree with sex education by parents very early so it's natural to all. -
I know there are more things I regret for not trying for fear of what others think than all the things I have been brave enough to try even if a few didn't work out! If you're both able to enjoy one another in a consensual way, go for it! There will always be disapproving people, regardless of who or what you do. As long as its consensual and no one is being hurt, everyone else's opinion be damned. In my experience, everyone has their own hidden desires of some sort that doesn't fit the status quo, and since they choose not to act on their desires for fear or whatever reason, they feel you shouldn't either.
Full disclosure, while I can say with all honesty that, overall this mindset has allowed me to experience incredible amount of fulfilling, thrilling and wondrous encounters and relationships (more taboo than not), there have been a few times when my choices have backfired but eventually, even some of those have worked out in one way or another but not all will but that can be said about anyone in any relationship!
I have enough of my own fear and uncertainty so I choose not to let the fear and repression of others interfere my own feelings and desires! -
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In your case it's not really incest since your not blood related brother. -
That isn't incest technically. I guess legally it could be though maybe I'm not sure. In order for it to be incest he would have to be biologically related to you. That concern emerged from issues that came from closely related people and their offspring.
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As long as he isn't blood related it's fine.
The only reason incest is bad is if you're blood related cause babies can be born retarded and stuff.
If you have a step brother or sister who isn't blood related, it's fine cause it's just like anyone else who isn't related to you.
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if he's your stepbrother then it's not incest basically
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first off he's your step brother so it's not really incest but even if you were blood relatives go for it if you both want it.
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Personally i think dont matter who you are in love with alongs its not paedophilia and non concented then incest is fine love is love at the end of the day.
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My boss marred his daughters husband's mother. If that makes any sense. Just clear it with your parents.
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Well in my opinion, you're not actually related (by blood), so it's not incest. But, could create issues within the family? I guess you have to decide if you guys think it's "worth it"? My step sister is currently dating my cousin, which is a bit weird lol, but they don't seem to care about it so?
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Incest among step siblings is very common all over the nation. Not just alabama 😂 If there is an attraction there and your both old enough to be responsible sexually I say go for it. Just be prepared for the backlash should anyone else find out.
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Just seems kind of weird. Though that is a genre in anime. :D
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When my older Sister and I were active, it was just sex. First it was us learning, then it was experimenting and doing crazy things we read about, as it was back in the 60s and there was no such thing as videos and the internet. We even branched out in the Family, just for the enjoyment of the sex.
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If it's step sibling it's not incest and it's fair game.
If it's half sibling it's incest, and you and the baby should be killed by drowning in a boiling pot of water -
I don't know I would try not to get pregnant but if I had a extremely hot relative shit could and would happen
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Incest is always bad. However, stepsiblings aren't technically related, so it's kind of a gray area.
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If we're talking about CONSENSUAL sex (which is redundant... if it isn't consensual, it is assault, not sex) then there's nothing wrong with it.
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Sometimes there’s just that one sister you’ve loved all your life and you can’t help but notice how her body shape matches the women you’re into and how beautiful she really is. You love her so much, you have an urge to “initiate with her “ not only because you can’t help how beautiful she is, but to try to make her feel as beautiful as she is, especially when she feels like she isn’t.
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